Kākahu hakari ana - te kōwhiringa mo te rangatira i

Childhood katoa kotiro, kahore feaa e tika ana ki te ataata noho nakohakoha, tae kanapa, whakangahau papatipu me te ngahau. A ko reira maori e whangai ana i nga whaea ki titiro atu huatau o katoa tona tamaiti. Ngā mātua o tamariki i roto i tenei tikanga, he māmā te reira, engari i reira he he wero ki ngā mātua i te kotiro '. Ahakoa i runga i te wiki, e kore ki te whakahua i te Tau Hou huritau ranei, e hiahia ana te kotiro ki te taka ake, ka hoatu ki runga ki te kakahu e mea hakari ana.

haere tahi katoa haerenga ki te pikitia ranei i runga i hararei kura e te kakahu ataahua kōwhiringa "mamae". e matau ana tetahi kotiro mama e potae o tamariki, hararei i roto i ngā, ko nga mea tino o ratou tamahine. Na reira, he tika to ratou whiriwhiri o huarahi ata. A e kore whaea e whakararuraru i ara te meka e ka tupu tana tamahine i roto o tenei kakahu i roto i te tau, a ka waiho i te reira e tika ana ano ki te titiro mo te kakahu e mea hakari ana.

Te kōwhiri i te tauira o te kakahu o tamariki, me tango e koe ki te pūkete te take. Hoki ngā whai wāhitanga whakaahua tino ahiahi pēpi kākahu ki te patunga witi. Heoi, ki te haere koutou kotiro iti i runga i hararei, whakarato maha kēmu kaha, me te whakangahau, ko reira e tika ana ki te whiriwhiri potae mō ngā tamariki i runga i hararei me i te wa taua whakamarie. Pūeru ki kia tuia i te ahuareka, rauemi ngohengohe.

Ko tētahi atu wāhi nui i roto i te kōwhiringa o te kakahu hararei o ngā tamariki - te reira whakaaro o te tamaiti (o te akoranga, ki te te tamaiti e taea kua faaite i te reira). Ka rite ki te tikanga, nga kotiro katoa moemoea ki te titiro rite te rangatira i, na maha whiriwhiri tae kanapa kākahu hararei ki maha whakapaipai. e riro te reira i pai ki te he taea e ki te kitea he ngāwari, tango ki pūkete te whakaaro o tona tamahine, me tona ake te whaea.

titiro kotiro iti tonu atu ki te hararei, ki te ite rite te rangatira i iti, mau ratou kakahu tino whakamiharo. Ki te te mua - he whakanui, e kore te mea e tika ana ki te faataime hoko o kakahu hakari mo te tamaiti i te kau rawa whakamutunga. Kaua e amo e te rangatira whiriwhiri i te hararei māmā atu te pūeru mo te pakeke. Hei kia rite ki te hoko, kia kite a te aha raruraru e ara ake i roto i te kōwhiringa o potae o ngā tamariki. Ki te kore koe e whakaaro, kia mea he e reira he kore mea ngāwari. Otiia e kore e pera! e kia te otinga tino pai te whiriwhiri e ka e taea ki te whakakotahi i te whakaaetanga o te rangatira i iti, me te māmā.

He mea nui ki te taka rite te kotiro te tino. I muri i tīpakohia katoa ki te whakaaro o te kakahu tamaiti he pea ki te mahi hei take mo te whakanui te whakararuraru,. Ko, homai te whakaaro o tona tamahine, he mea e tika ana tonu ki te whiriwhiri i te kakahu e mea hakari ana, e ka-kounga tiketike, me te watea. Ka hamper kounga rawakore kino papanga kaki whakahāngai ranei te kaupapa o te tamaiti, me te meinga hūhi. Ahakoa hiahia maha ngā pakeke te ataahua o te haratau, he tino houhou he pai rawa taua mo te tamaiti. Ko te hoki reira tino nui ki te pai te tiki ake i te tae o te ahu e te mea e tika ana mo to koutou ataahua. Ko tētahi atu wāhi nui - tenei whakapai makawe, te au tino ki te take. A reira ka noho ake i tenei hararei i roto i te mahara o to koutou tamahine rite te mau haamana'oraa tino ahuareka o te tamarikitanga ...