Mawehe ki te taata, me pehea ki te ora i te mahuetanga

E rua ngā momo o te iwi. Kei te hoatu tino uaua te tuatahi ki te hanga whanaungatanga me te uaua atu ki te wahi i a ratou, ki te kore e ngata te tahi mea. Tuarua, i roto i te rerekē, neke he take, me te ngāwari wehe. I roto i te tikanga ki te kore e faahiti i te mau hape i roto i te hononga hou, he mea nui ki te mahino te take o te tiango o te tawhito.

Ētahi māngai o te sex ngoikore, ki te whatiia atu whanaunga ki tona hoa, ui: "Me pēhea te ki te ora i te wehenga i te taata?". Te tangata haere ki te mahi ki te upoko, me te tīmata ki te hanga i te mahi, te kōwhiri noho takitahi. Te tangata, i runga i te anga ke, rau te whero pa. E whakama Girls i roto i te sex ritenga, a kahore e whakaaro reira e tika ana ki te matau i te āhuatanga. e kore e ratou rapu mō hoa hou ki te hanga i te whanaungatanga. Otiia e kore e ko te ara ki te oaoa tenei. Me pehea e taea e te reira iwi hari, ki te kahore he reira i muri ki a ia tōna ngana ki, kotahi nei e tautoko i roto i te mau taime fifi. Ko reira tino uaua ki te ora, kahore te tahi atu kaitutei. Takitaha o tatou hiahia i te iti moka o te tiaki me te wera.

Ite wehenga i te taata ta tatou e rave hifo. kōrero ki mua tīmata anō. Ano, kotahi ano, kei te takahi ki tatou i runga i te rake kotahi. I roto i te tikanga ki te waiho i te hari tangata, a ka kitea e koutou mate wairua, e hiahia ana koe ki te waiho tika. Ko te aha ka kōrero tatou.

Tuatahi ti'a ia tatou ki ia amuihia i te katoa "i". Ki te he ruha te hononga, tēnā kia maia, me tango i te reira mo homai. Kahore he take ki te karanga i te mua, te kupukupu ki te waea, mataara hoki ia i muri i te mahi. Mämä noa iho, e kore e titiro mō ngā hui. Ki te te tupu i te reira mawehe ki te taata, e hiahia ana koe ki te haere, kotahi me mo te katoa, e kore hoki. Ki te mea kua hoatu ki a koutou i te reira ki te mahi, tamata koe ki te haere ki te wahi kotahi, kei hea he koutou ex, e hiahia ana koe ki te ū ki te tawhiti matawhenua. Whakamātauria i te iti rawa i te ia poto ki te haere vahi, me i te wawahi wa taua.

Whakamātauria ki te mahi i nga mea aroha koutou, huringa, hei tauira, te mahi, me haere ki te tau waea. Ki te taea, tatari wāhi kē. Me koe te tahi mea ki te noho koe, kawea mai to koutou upoko me whakaaro i roto i te tikanga ki te ata iho. I muri mawehe ki te taata he, te uaua ki te waiho noa te wiki torutoru tuatahi, a ka e kitea e koe koe whakaaro e kore koutou whakaaro e pā ana ki o koutou ex te whakarau, a ka kua nohoia ki ētahi atu mea o koutou whakaaro.

A feruri i to koutou runaruna. Pea, mo te whakaaro ki o ratou hononga mua i koe ki te patu whakahere ki a ratou. Ko e mo'oni, tino maha tupu te reira e kore e to tatou hoa makona ki te mea e ngākau nui ana matou. Na maka tatou tenei mahi, tika ki te pai tona kotahi aroha. Na ko te kau, ka taea e koe te oaoa i to koutou runaruna tino tenei. Ko te wa ki te kore e ora mo "Wasi", me hoki ia. Haunga, Kei te tino faanevaneva reira koutou i whakaaro kino.

Ko te mea nui, kua ki te reira kua mawehe ki te taata, e kore e titiro hoki kohakore i roto koe. Tino maha te hua o te mahuetanga he iti kiritau-. Ko tūturu i roto i rua tangata me nga wahine reira, engari e pea atu ki te tukinotia ratou wahine. Na e kua ora koutou marutanga, e te reira te wa, i ētahi wā tau. A e kore i haere i te reira i roto i te noa, kuo pau ke tau ako ki whakawhirinaki te takoto te ritenga. Ko te tikanga māmā - te huri i te porowhita pāpori. He hoa tino, me hoa ki te whai ngahau, ki nei noho tatou i to tatou wa free, i te okiokinga, haere ki ngā rōpū. Na, me o koutou hoa, ka e uaua ake, engari ka taea e kia hoa, me te kia whakakapia. Me ratou ki te kia tātarihia i roto. ka hei hoa pono tonu i reira hoki koutou, engari ngaro i te hoa, e pea ki te tatarahapa koe.

Me pēhea te ki te ora i te wehenga i tana tane? Ahakoa ki te mau tonu hoa whanaunga ki te mua?

Tino mea "ae" ranei "kahore," Ko e taea. Me puta tatou i te āhuatanga, ki te whai tahi koutou tamariki, pakihi. I roto i tenei take, ahakoa e hiahia ana koe i te reira e kore ranei, whai koe ki te hei hoa. ahurea o te whenua, kua pāngia hoki karakia. Te whakaū i ngā hononga, maha e kore e taea e faaipoipo o mua te pupuri i te tawhiti aronganui, ratou autaki pā te oraraa o tetahi ki tetahi. mahue ratou he tikanga o te mana pupuri, a kahore ratou e hiahia ana ki te kite i ihora ratou ex ki tetahi atu tangata. I tua atu, ka taea e waiho ratou tika i aroha, ka rite ki pa reira hanga hononga hou. Pea, Me whakatau tangata ia mo ia te mea e hiahia ana ia ki te mutunga i te hononga. He mea tika ki te tātari i te āhuatanga, me te kitea i roto i te tuatahi o te katoa i roto i a ia. Otiia ara, ki te whakatau koe ki te noho hoa, mo te wa tuatahi, ko te tonu e tika ana ki te tango i te wāhiki. Ko tenei i roto i te tikanga e pai ai kia katoa o koutou kare me mana'o mariri, a taea ki te tango i te titiro mataara i te āhuatanga i koe.