Me pēhea te ki te ora te taiohitanga?

haamata te taiohitanga a tawhio noa te tau o te tekau ma rua, me te mutu i waru. I te mutunga o tenei wā, taiohi katoa, te tikanga tino i hanga tuakiri individuation me mutu te tukanga. He te hanganga o tona super-huru, e ko, katoa mai ona huinga ake o ngā kawa, tikanga me ngā uara. I roto i te taiohitanga, e whakahohe hormones me panoni koiora, e ko te pūtake o ngā rerekētanga hinengaro katoa.

Ko te wa rawa taratara tenei - tīmata poke, me te marama. Katoa wā tau o te whanaketanga o te tamaiti i to ratou ake raruraru. I roto i te heke mai, kua whakahohe ratou, ka riro i te take, e ka neke te tamaiti. Te tikanga o tēnei e ka waiho te papamuri matua he pakanga, e ōrite ana ki taua wāhanga o te whanaketanga i roto i i a fifi te tamaiti. kia mohio koe, ko te atu whīwhiwhi nga raruraru e, te atu e pā ratou whanonga o te taiohi.

No te mea o te tinana te kaha hormones hanganga o taiohi tīmata ki te huri i. Te whakawhanake āhuatanga Tuarua fakasekisualé, no te mea o nei ka tīmata te tamaiti ki te wheako manukanuka. I roto i ētahi wā, i reira ko te kore o tona ake tinana. Ehara i te āhua o te taringa, tetahi wahi e taea riro te ati ranei. I te tahi taime Ko na kaha te mana o te pato'iraa e kia riro koe i te whakaaro o te whakamomori.

Taiohitanga - he whakamātautau i homai ki te tangata i ia. Na te hiahia ki fakahoko o holi mauri - ko reira te matua kaha taraiwa. whakakitea ana tēnei i roto i te tītoi pokapū noa. fakatahai te reira i te pai i takea mai i ngā wāhanga katoa. Otiia e kore e ko te hua te kī, engari ki te whai wāhi. Hoki tenei take, maha e kore e te tamaiti kawe reira ki te mutunga, ko te kupu meinga āwangawanga i roto i ngā mātua.

I roto i te te taiohitanga reira ko deidealizatsiya ahanoa matua. Ko e tika ana hoki te hanganga o te huru tenei. Ki te aroaro o ko te Atua o te matua, ko reira inaianei he tangata ke. Hoki ngā mātua taiohi deidealiziruet i roto i ngā morare. Tirohia hoa riro atu nui, me te nui atu i nga whakaaro o ngā mātua. I roto i tenei wā, te pöuri o te tamaiti tiaki ia i te tukunga hāngū ki te mau metua e, i roto i te tahuri, i raro ki te faaino teimaha. whakaaro taiohi Pirihitini hōhā, me te hina ratou mau metua '.

hoki i ngā mātua ki te tika hoatu ki taua whanonga ki runga. Engari ka taea e ratou te mahi kia kore he i raro i te mana o te kamupene kino te tamaiti. Me tiki ngā mātua ake te tamaiti "rōpū tohutoro" (wāhanga hākinakina, he kura toi, he kura waiata, he tour Club Dance). Ka muri nui roa rerekē i waenganui i ngā mātua me ō rātou hoa, me taea anake te matua haere ki ngā ki te aroaro i roto i te ora o te rōpū hoa taiohi, me te te meka e ratou whakaaro me whakaaro he nui atu nui. Kei te āta te whakakapia tikanga Mātua runga ona ake, e ki te taiohi riro wheako me te tamataraa hapa. Hoki tenei take, he mea e tika ana ki te hoatu i te tamaiti kia rite ki te nui e taea maha hanga enei hape.

Kaua e ngaro i te whakawhirinaki o tou tamaiti i roto i te taiohitanga - ko te whāinga matua o ngā mātua. I muri i te katoa, ite katoa tenei wa uaua, me te tino. He maha taiohi i roto i tenei wā ahu ki te kia meá, me te kino-whakaaro mahi, i runga i nei ratou pea i ki tamata ki tutakina.