Me pēhea te ki te wehewehea ki te tangata whai hoa, me te wareware reira?

Women ite i te tikanga rahi o te marama, me te tangata e he whānau, e kore e ki te kia hae. Ki te mohio te tīmatanga koe e patu ake he hononga ki te tangata whai hoa, e whakapono ki ahau, e kore e meatia e te reira whakahonore koe. Ranei tino whakatuwheratia etahi wa i muri mai? ako koe e tona aroha he utuafare, ina kua ako e kore e taea e koe e ora i waho reira? A inaianei e kore koe e matau me pehea ki te wehewehea ki te tangata whai hoa? No, e kore matou e kōrero e pā ana ki taua, e kore matou e korero ki a koutou te mea, rite ki te tikanga, mutunga taua hononga e kua mahi koe he kino i roto i te pā ana ki tona utuafare. Matau inaianei kia kohikohi koe i aku whakaaro, me te whakatau me pehea ki te wehewehea ki te tangata whai hoa ake ake, e kore ki te hi'a ki mana'o i roto i te heke mai, e kore ki te hoki ki reira te wa katoa. te tauturu ia tatou ki a koutou kitea i roto ia ratou i te kaha ki e kore e waiho e koe taea ki te paopao ki te aroha hara anake, engari ano hoki ki te wareware e feohi koe ki taua tangata.

whai ki ite i te mea matua koe: ki te aroha tetahi whai hoa tangata - a ravea mauiui. E hiahia ana koe ki te ora ki enei mau mana'o tona ora katoa? Tō mahi tuatahi ki te whakaora e mahi rite te hiahia ki te ako e pā ana ki te whānau e arohaina. Whakapono ki ahau, ina koe ako e pā ana ki tana wahine, ka o ratou te whanaungatanga, koutou e pai tino Kia taea ki hanga tino e i roto i te meka ratou e kore katoa rite kino rite reira a utuhia i roto i to ratou kupu e pā ana ki hysterical me te tohunga wahine. maha korero nga tangata whai hoa mistresses rite kōrero i runga i pehea te roa i mua ratou e kore e moe ki a ratou wahine i roto i te moenga kotahi. Ki te koropiko te whānau ahanoa whai tamariki koe, kia mahi i tenei hei take atu mo te break. E taea te papa pai ki te waiho ratou tamariki mo te whakaaro ki o mana'o ki te kotiro i waho? Matau, ki te ki te kawe mai ki te tangata kua whakahaere te tangata, ka utu i te reira kahore ki te tuku i tō aroha ki te wā. e hiahia ana koe te tangata i te kotiro '?

Ko tētahi e te fehangahangai kē ki te tinihanga o te tangata, ko te pai mōhio o te mamae ai reira te wahine aroha. I muri i te katoa, i kotahi ite e ia te taua mana'o rite tana wahine, e pea matau e ko te reira e kore tika ko te mutunga i te ahiahi toku tane. Ki te matau koutou ki te mana'o o te inoino hohonu, me te mamae, tika mahara e kotahi i koe ki te mau. e hiahia ana koe ki te kia kahore nei, akina tetahi tangata ki te mamae no te mea o te puremu?

E hiahia ana ki te mohio me pehea ki te wehewehea ki te tangata whai hoa, kahore i te take? E mea ohie roa: e taea e koe te mahi ki te tiki ki a ia te tango i taua taahiraa matamua ki te wahi i tō hononga. Ratou whanonga, ka taea e pana koe i te reira ki te whakatau tika, e pā ana ki to koutou hononga. Ki te mea kua mua i a koutou ki a ia anake, he ngawari, māramatanga, me te aroha, ka tupu akaou mai ki te takitahi ka haha te, me te narcissistic e hiahia i roto i te tahi mau wharekai me mau horo'a. Raunaha tona tōlili, ki atu ki a ia e kua tata titiro ia kino, me te akeake kakahu, te hanga āhuatanga rorirori hoki ia. I muri i taua whanonga i runga i tou wahi i whiriwhiri e hoki ki tona utuafare. Ka waiho ia hari, me te mohio, e kore tana wahine ko na kino rite whakaaro reira i mua.

Me pēhea te ki te wehewehea ki te tangata whai hoa, ki te kore koe e taea e sioloto tangata Moody? Aki kotahi: e kore e haea o koutou ngakau, e kore e tatari hoki tūtakitanga tupono ki a ia. Whakamātauria ki te karo ara kōrero waea ki te ahanoa o haamoriraa. mea ratou ko e aroha i roto i te hiahia o te kai, a ka whai koe ki te maka i te reira ki te hiakai. Ko te tangata ite e karo koutou hui me hoapā ki a ia, a ka meinga e ia te mutunga tika i haere mai i te hononga ki te mutunga. e kore koe e manukanuka ki te pehea, ki te wehewehea ki te tangata whai hoa, kia rite kore ki te he ki a ia. Kei te whakaaro ia e pā ana ki te āhua o te kore ki te kino ia i tana wahine?