Me pēhea te ki te whakaae te aroha ki te kotiro?

Te tangata e hiahia ana ki te hei i ataahua, he mea parakore, kanapa, me te aronganui te hononga. Ko te rua tīmata ki tutataki, Kia matau koe ki tetahi ki tetahi, hoko whakamahia me Whakarite te tuarua hawhe a kotahi reira a wa ki ki atu "e ahau te aroha koutou!". Ko te tino maha, e kore e te tangata taitamariki matau me pehea ki te whakaae te kotiro i roto i te aroha!

He kupu tino nui enei, na e kore e korero ratou i te toru o nga ra i muri i te timatanga o te hononga, no te mea kahore he tahi mea e kore e e whakapono te kotiro, a kia ara whakaaro reira mo te teka parahi, mea koutou, i roto i te tikanga ki te whakatutuki i āna whāinga etahi.

Ko tika mea pera i roto i te tukanga o te mātakitaki i te kiriata i roto i te marama i muri i te timatanga o te hononga, ano e kore utu reira. Me ki te whakaaro āta pā ana ki te pehea, ki te whakaae te aroha ki te kotiro, me te pehea, ki te hanga i koe i te reira na e te kau o āhukahuka o te ora.

Me koe ki te haere mai ki etahi ara whaiāipo me te taketake pehea ki te mea e pā ana ki te aroha ake, a ka ia tino whakapono ka whakautu ki a koutou i roto i te hokinga mai.

Ka rite ki te kōwhiringa, ka taea e koe te whakarite i te hakari whaiāipo ki te kahore koutou e matau me pehea ki te korero ia o tona aroha. Cook katoa koe (o te akoranga, i mua-mahi-i roto i te wā torutoru), pai ki te takoto i te tepu (ki te kore koe e mohio me pehea, ka taea e koe ui i te whanaunga wahine), ka fakaafe'i tona hoa kōhine. korero noa ahau te mea hiahia koe ki te whakarite i te ohorere hoki ia. Whakapono ahau, ka taea te whakanekeneke. Aue, a kahore e wareware ia puawai tino. I reira ka taea e koe te tāpiri i te tuhipoka ki whakapuakanga o te aroha. Tīkina neke, whaiāipo me te iti moka tamariki, ka tāpiri i te reira humarie ana o te wā. I muri lau ia te tuhipoka me te titiro patapatai i a koutou - te whakaū i te meka i kite koe ona kanohi ki runga ki te pepa, me te korero ki a matou e pā ana ki o koutou mau mana'o.

Ka taea e koe te tono i te āhukahuka i runga i pourewa, a deushku fakaafe'i mo te haere. Ka rite ki i ata te utu reira tona aro ki te āhukahuka o, a, o te akoranga, ki te whakamārama i roto i Luba i wahi.

Ki te kahore koe e mohio me pehea ki te whakaae te kotiro i roto i te aroha, ka taea e koe porassprashivat hoa, rite kia ratou, i roto ia ratou i reira he he whaiāipo, me te hoatu koutou ngā tohutohu.

e kia te kōwhiringa nui he fakaafe mo te haere i te moana te awa ranei, te wahi e waiho te mau tamahine i te whakaatu iti ahi. Me koe ki te faaineine i roto i mua, me te tuu ki te tuu kānara, hei tauira, i roto i te puka o te ngakau. Well, ki te e ia ninii i ratou katoa tou hoa ki tou taenga i te tetahi wa. He tepu hoki e rua, he pounamu o te waina, hua, tiakarete - he aha ngā hiahia ake ki te kia mea e pā ana ki te aroha.

I tua atu, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i kānara, a kia anake hei wahie tupato. ka waiho te reira ataahua mīharo ka huihui mai koutou, ka whakaturia ngakau unu ahi. Na ka kore koutou manukanuka ki te pehea, ki te korero ki te kotiro e pā ana ki te aroha - a kia ka matau, pai, matau koe fakanatula ia.

Ka taea e koe te ui i te kotiro ki te eke i runga i te kaipuke, he kaipuke. Kōkiri mowhiti hoko, kulonchik, tetahi atu wahi o te whakapaipai ranei, a tika korero e pā ana ki o koutou mau mana'o. Kia tohu to koutou mea homai noa koutou aroha tahi.

Ki te whakamahere tahi koutou i te hararei, engari ano, koutou e kore e matau me pehea ki te whakaae te kotiro i roto i te aroha, kia mau i roto i te ngakau e he rawa nui taea ki te kitea huarahi ki te ite i te moana. Ia he hararei, ra raumati māhorahora, me te whai i te kōrero huna ore.

Ka taea e koe te tango i te eke ki runga ki te wira Ferris me haere ake ki te ohorere taketake, ki te mea te aroha te tangata taketake.

Ki te koe tonu kahore e mohio me pehea ki te whakaae tona aroha kotiro, āhukahuka mīharo mo a fakangalongata'a ka tuhi he waiata i roto i to koutou mahi mo to koutou tino. Ki te whai koe i te wairua lyrical mohio, i te taringa me te reo, ko reira taea ki te hoatu i te hawhe tuarua he waiata i roto i nei ki te waiata ia āhuatanga ataahua. ka pa ki te reira i tetahi kotiro! Ki te koe ka rite ki te tamaiti takahia i runga i te taringa o te pea, ka taea e tatou te whakawhāiti i te tuhituhi o te irava.

I roto i tetahi take, mea katoa ara whiriwhiri koe, te mea matua - ko reira aau tae, no te mea e ko te rite te mea e hiahia ana koe i tou tino, e kore mowhiti me te puawai. e kore e whiti No taonga rauemi i roto i nga kupu e haere mai ana i te hohonu o to koutou ngakau aroha.