Ki te whakaaro koe e pā ana ki hararei o ngā tamariki, ka haere mai mahara ki haamana'oraa kanapa, me te ātaahua o te whakanui koa ki whakataetae ngahau. Te rōpū o te iwi taitamariki i roto i te nuinga puritia ki waiata, me te kanikani, engari atu pakeke te hopoia whakakahore i te whai wāhi ki te whai i te wa nui ratou. E mea pinepine, ra whanau, mo taua mea, tahuri tetahi atu hararei ki te huihuinga banal i te tepu, me anake te mea e huri e - tavini te rārangi. I roto i te tikanga ki te mahara koutou rōpū huritau a tawhio noa te wa roa, he reira taea ki te whakarite i ngā whakataetae rorirori mō ngā pakeke i te rōpū rā whānau.
whakapono ētahi e ki te whakarite i ia kia tino u ki te ani i te kaiwhakahaere ngaio ko wai e taea e whakaaroa me te kawe i roto i ngā whakataetae, me kuihi te hararei ngā. O te akoranga, e kore matou e totohe ki te meka e taea ngāwari te pro akakoromaki i to ratou mau hopoi'a, engari ka rapu utu koutou ki atu whakapaunga pūtea. I roto i te meka, te whakataetae mau taketake i te ra o te tamaiti huritau ko te putunga, a ka taea e koe te haere mai ki te whakaaro mō rātou ake ake. Ano, ki te pupuri i te hui kia tetahi o te karangatia, mo te tauira, he hoa tata whanaunga ranei, he mea e tika ana anake ki te kōkiri ki reira whiriwhiri me te faaineine i te whakangahau.
Na, whakaaroa te tu o whakataetae mō ngā pakeke i runga i te ra o te whanautanga taea whakarite i te hararei e kore riro i te hakari pouri. Ki he kau kamata, ka taea e koe fakaafe'i nga manuhiri katoa ki te tuhituhi ranei te utu i runga i te pepa aha e hiahia ana ratou ki te koha celebrant. Ka taea e te reira tetahi mea, mai i hu hou, me whakamutu ki te motokā, he fare me te haerenga ao. Mātārere ki "mau horo'a" e piri ki te taura ka rongo, te tamaiti ra whanau kia koparea tapahia rau ki nui pakipaki i nga manuhiri. I roto i te tikanga ki te hanga atu fun te whakataetae, kua ki te imi nei o te manuhiri hiahia ia tenei mea homai hero o te take. Ki te Matapae ia faatupu te āheinga te hiahia, engari ki te kahore, mai te manuhiri ake te ra whanau mahi. He mea nui kia whakaritea ngā whakataetae i ngā rōpū i roto i te ara taua e tangohia e ratou katoa wahi - me te hero o nga hui, me ana manuhiri.
Tenei te tetahi whakataetae ngahau e ka kawea te pa o te kata me te ngahau, rawa, ki te te hoko wera kē koutou kamupene inu i te kava. Hoki reira ka rapua e te pātene atu ahanoa iti ranei. Note e, ki te hiahia tino koe ki te pupuri i whakataetae mō ngā pakeke i te rōpū rā whānau, ka hiahia koe ki te faaineine i te tika "taputapu" katoa me he mea e minaminatia e kore ki te wareware te mau horo'a iti. I whakanohoia te timatanga o te pātene whakataetae kei runga i te maihao taupū o te tamaiti ra whanau, e tahuri ki te āheinga noho i muri ki a ia, ani manihini ia ki te neke i tona maihao i runga i te pātene. Ko te hopu Ko e taea e koe te whakamahi i anake te maihao taupū, maturuturu iho te tangata te pātene, i roto o te kēmu. I te mutunga i reira ko te rua anake iwi e whai ana ki te tae tata puta noa te tepu ki te ruru pātene. Taua whakataetae mō te rōpū huritau pakeke kawe te rota o te hari me te kata, rawa ki te he totohe hauora me te hiahia ki te riro i te kēmu.