He aha te mea te pakanga?

Te tangata - he mea hanga e kore e whaitake anake, kia rite ki kei te whakapono, engari ano hoki taupatupatu. "Whakaaro ahau, Na, o te pakanga" - kia taea e koe te tahuri i te parau noa. Hei timata ki tatou ka matau ai tenei pakanga, a he aha momo o pakanga tīariari.
E te ara, he tokomaha maha whakapoauau tenei ariā ki te tutukitanga, he kowhetewhete tonu. Ko te mea i nga mea rerekē. maha he take, me te whawhai haamou, me e te tikanga ki te kawe mai i roto i o toenga, "whakaoti atu" te tahi atu tangata ranei tupu ratou ka pau ki te whakamatau ratou take. Haere mai te aha kia.

Ko te aha te mea te pakanga? Ia, i roto i te rerekē ki te tautohe, e kore he reira tonu haamou. Papā - te reira noa te ara ki te whakawhiti ki te taumata muri.
He tokomaha pōhēhē i huaina ngutungutu i mahi me te whānau pakanga pakanga, engari mahara tatou e taurite te kore e taea e enei ariā e.

Nuinga o ngā wā i reira he papā te utuafare, mahi me te papā ki ano, te pera-ka karanga "ā".

papā Family - he tukanga māori, me te, pea, e kore te hapu kotahi i roto i te ao, ki nga wahi katoa e tupu ratou. Ko tētahi atu mea, ko te e ti'a ia tatou ia mahi ki a ratou i roto i te ara ritenga, engari e kore e tīmata tukuaki'i hunga aroha, ranei kino, ki te tū rite te patunga. Ko te ara mutunga mate tenei.

He aha te mea he pakanga o te tuakiri ki a koutou? Ko te tangata - he ao pono katoa. Katoa ra e fehangahangai tatou ki te whiriwhiri - he aha ki te mahi, he aha ki te whakakahore, te mea ki te whiriwhiri me te aha ki te hiahia. Hei tauira, e hiahia ana ahau ki te taka i pai, ki te haere hoki i te mirimiri me te mau kakahu kounga. Otira e matau ana ahau e te tangata i toku utuafare ko he raruraru, a ka hiahia te iwi te tauturu. Tae atu rauemi, hei tauira, mō te maimoatanga. A roto ahau tīmata malu'aki mai pakanga. e kore ahau e oblige ki kia koha ki te maimoatanga. A ahakoa kua ennye ahau penapena, i whakamahere ahau ki, mea, wātea i runga i te Maldives. Na te aha ki te mahi i teie nei? He he he pakanga ā-, e korero ki te tangata rau o ngā pōti. Kei te mau te reira i ki pūkete me te meka e te moni i hoatu ki ahau rawa pakeke i tatou ki te mahi mō te rua tau e kahore te hararei, i te tahi atu te ringa, Me awhina te tangata, a pea, tei tenei moni i runga i te ora o te tangata ... Me pēhea te ki te whakatau i te āhuatanga papā? I roto i tenei take, te pakanga - he pai tenei, no te mea e āhei te reira ia tatou i te pae hopea ki ia amuihia i te "i". Ara: whakatau ahau ki te mutunga - i te mea wahi i reira he hoki te aroha ki ahau, a i te mea wāhi - whaiaro aroha-. Whiua te ture o morare, e kore te mea e pā ana ki taua te tuhinga. Na, i roto i tenei take - e te pakanga taua? Te mea ke atu, rite te ara o te whaiaro matauranga-. A he pai tenei. haamaramarama te reira i, i te iti rawa.

A he aha te mea he pakanga i mahi? Ano, fakamanatu ahau, e kore te mea he komekome, muhumuhu me whanoke tenei. I mahi, whakatika te pakanga ka, mea, e kāore tohaina nga mau ohipa mahi, te wahi i reira he kore tōkeke pāpori - te mutunga i reira ko te pakanga. Ahakoa te meka e he mamae tenei tukanga, engari i te iti rawa he mārama tūmanakohia e te o koutou i roto i te rōpū, tae atu ki ngā mana reira, me e titau koutou. A hoki, mahi whai koe koutou tūmanako whānui i roto i te noa.

Ko tētahi atu take e whakatau i ngā āhuatanga papā Me ki te whakatika, kahore slamming tatau, me kahore hoatu ake i roto i te mata o te mana i te pukapuka o te rīhainatanga.

I roto i te hinengaro, i reira he ara he taua mea - te ahurea o te pakanga. Ahakoa, pea tangi reira he bit ke, engari tika te tikanga tenei wā e kia whakatutuki te pakanga i roto i te ara whai hua, kaua ki te haamou.

Na te pātai whakamutunga - me te hunga ake pinepine i roto i pakanga? Ko te hunga e tamata i te kitea to ratou wahi i roto i te ora. Papā rawa i rawe ki ki taiohi, te mau utuafare taitamariki nei e tika tīmata ki te tiki whenua me te iwi katoa whakaaro (e korero ana o pakanga ā-).

Papā, engari e kore e raro koe ki tautohetohe me pariraa. A e kore e pai ki te haere ki raro, te ara kino.