He he tane: me pehea ki te ora.

whānau hari ētahi wā whawhati i runga i te hononga ākau rite te tinihanga. Kei te whakapono te reira e kua mahia taua mahi te nuinga i nga tangata no o ratou natura punarua kē. Otiia e kore e he tonu tenei te take, he hoki nga wahine e taea o tinihanga, he hokohoko haere i runga i te taha, a ratou tae noa maha whakahēmanawa i te mahi me te hoha o whanaunga utuafare. Ko, o te akoranga, e ratou pea atu ki te taka ki roto ki tenei āhuatanga, conventionally te nei huaina te "Tinihanga tane pehea ki te ora."

Tuatahi o te katoa mamae to koutou kiritau-whaiaro, no te mea i mahue ia koe, ka whiriwhiria tetahi atu wahine. I roto i kore take e kore e hiahia ana ki te kupu, me te whai kupu koe i haere koutou hoa ki te maui. Pea, i roto i to koutou hononga i etahi raruraru e, engari te hopoi'a mo ratou, whai koe ki te faaite i tahi. He āwangawanga e pā ana ki ētahi wahine "nahea ia ite i te tinihanga o tona tane," me hoki kahore take kitea. Ehara i te mea e tika ana i roto i nga mahi ho hoá ki te titiro mō ngā tohu o te taiata, no te mea e whakawhirinaki - he nui, ki runga ki nei te hanga te whānau tenei. Otiia ki te kitea e koutou i roto i taua i reira ko ki kia he tinihanga o tana tahu, me pehea ki te ora me te whakarerea noatia ia ki te whai koe ki te whakaoti.

Tuatahi e hiahia ana koe ki te matau ranei ko te take taratahi tenei. Ka taea e te tangata e tutuki, whakapono ki ahau, ara ki a koutou. Te reira i katoa tei runga i te āhuatanga, āhua o te ngakau, me te huru utuafare. Pono, e kore tinihanga e taea te whakatikaia e tetahi mea, engari ki te he kino koutou tane kotahi anake, ka hiahia koe ki te whakarongo ki a koe. ai e taea ki te whakarerea noatia ia, a te mutunga ako ki whakawhirinaki ia ano koe. O te akoranga, e tika ai tenei whakatau, ki te ko o koutou ngakau ano atu te aroha atu i te whakahawea, me te mauahara mo te tangata.

Women e mārama taiata tana tahu a, me pehea ki te tikanga i nga wa e kore e taea e tika matau. mahi ratou rūhia me te paari ore, te whakarite i te tutukitanga, ka ara ka ki te hiahia ratou ki te whakarerea noatia, ka whiriwhiri ki te whakaora i te utuafare, maha ia kore hiahia reira, mana'o hara, me te whakaaro i reira i runga i Sauron, ka waiho taua mea māmā me te haumaru. Ko te aha, ki te e fehangahangai koe ki te āhuatanga i roto i te ora o "tane Tinihanga pehea ki te ora", te tuatahi o te katoa, te tiki noa koe tahi, ka ata iho.

I muri i taua, Me tino koe ki te waiho i te whare mo te ia, ka taea e koe te haere ki hea, ora ki ngā mātua ranei hoa o. Me ki matau ratou ko o ratou mana'o kahore e whakaohokia o te kau, a ka marama te matau ranei e hiahia ana koe i te utuafare e, me ranei e murua koe koe. He tokomaha nga wahine, ka ki waho kitea ratou e reira ko he tinihanga o tana tahu, me pehea ki te ora e kore i mohio reira, engari whiriwhiri ki whakarerea noatia mo te whakaaro ki o tamariki, mo te whakaaro ki o ratou, a na reira i runga i. Otiia, ki te tino taea e kitea e koe i te kaha ki te whakarerea noatia, mahara, e kore koutou e whai i te tika, ki kore, i raro i tetahi huru, ara i roto i kākā te tupuhi haora ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki taua meka kino o tou haurongo faaipoiporaa. Whakarerea noatia - tikanga ki te tuku haere ake. Ki te kore e taea e ki te mahi koe, me he hohonu rawa te motu, e hiahia ana kia koe ki te whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te ora i to ratou oraraa. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te whakaora i te whānau mo te whakaaro ki o te tamariki, ki te kore koe e taea e te waihanga i roto i tona noa, huru hauora o te māramatanga, me te whakawhirinaki.

A, no te e fehangahangai koe ki te āhuatanga o "tinihanga o tana tahu, me pehea ki te ora," waiho kāinga mo te torutoru nga ra, tamata ki te hanga wa mo tika koe. Me koe ki te tangi i roto i tona pouri, e kore e mau hoki kare, hamama, oati, karanga, too atu o tenei pöuri. Whakamātauria ki te huri i te tahi mea i roto i to outou oraraa, image, whakapai makawe, kakahu. Ki te mea kua whakaritea e koe ki te whakarerea noatia tana tane, me te hoki atu ki reira, tamata ki hei te tino e minaminatia hoki ia, i ahuareka ai, me te ataahua. Whakaungia te romance i roto i to koutou hononga. Pinepine i huihui, whakarongo ki tetahi ki tetahi, pea tau o te oraraa utuafare i wareware koe e pā ana ki te hiahia o ona haurua.

Reira tupu hoki e te tane rau noa te utuafare, me tahuri te tinihanga i roto i ki a koutou te tahi mea mooni, he take kua ngaro e koutou uniana. I roto i tenei take, he awhina wa anake, te aroha me te tautoko o te hunga i aroha. Me tamata tatou ki te tuku ia o te inoino, rite kihai i whara, rawa, ki te whai tahi koutou tamariki. Me ratou he papa rite nui rite te mahi koe. ka haere Time, a ka ite ano koe i te reka o te ora, me te whiwhi i te whakapono e aroha ana ki ko.