He tohe ki "koe" i runga i nga ture o te ritenga kupu

Āhuatanga āhuatanga o te tangata i roto i tona kupu, me te tauākī tuhituhi ki te ētahi atu i roto i te mau rave'a e rave rahi tohu i te ahurea whānui o te tangata. Ko ratou i roto i te whakapā tata ki te whakapakoko e hangaia e te reira i roto i te kanohi o etahi, me te kupu pā ratou huru ki a ia. Na reira, tetahi o nga take tino nui, ko te kaha ki te whakamahi i tika te fetonginauna "koe" me te "koe" i roto i te aparauraa ki ngā interlocutors, a i roto i te faaineineraa o reta me ētahi atu tuhinga.

Ko te tuatahi "Rēhita" kupu huatau me ngā kīanga

Kei te mohiotia te reira i e i roto i Russia mo te wa tuatahi kua whakaturia nga momo huatau o te wāhitau i roto i te ahua o te pukapuka matua i puta i roto i 1717. Tenei pukapuka, haaputuraa o i tangohia e wahi ki te whai wāhitanga whaiaro o Pita ahau, i huaina "whakaata Youth tika, ranei tohu hoki tikanga ao" me te tikanga te nuinga hoki mua taitamariki.

Huri noa te wā kotahi, te enforcers emepera i roto i te puka Pākehā o mahi, whakaurua te whakamahi o te tono ki a "koe" tono ratou i te maha o ngā reo ke. I roto i nga ra tawhito, i roto i te vahine rau uru anake, ki te te tangata, ki te hiahia ratou ki te homai i nga kupu i te tikanga motuhake. Na roto i te "koe," rite e fakahu'unga e te tangata anake he utu tokomaha. Kua mutu taua maimoatanga he angalelei motuhake.

I 1722 Pita i ahau te "Ripanga o rarangi» tuhinga ─ tautuhi ōrite hōia, harangotengote, me te marae kī, wehea nei ratou ki ngā akomanga 14. I roto i te reira, i roto i era atu mea, kōrero ki te hapai i ki te matenga o te paetukutuku. ko nga puka rerekē, ka okioki i runga i ona tūranga i runga i te arawhata rangatōpū, engari i roto i te wā katoa e hiahiatia ana maimoatanga i roto i te vahine rau, pērā i "tou Kawana" ranei "tou te aroha noa."

"Peu kopikopiko to"

He pārekareka ki te mōhio e pera maheni ki a tatou i tenei ra i te tono ki a "koe" ki te tango i pakiaka i roto i te reo Russian, upooti'araa te ātete, i ētahi wā ahu i te māngai o te porowhita tino ahu whakamua o te intelligentsia motu. Hei kite i tenei, whakatuwhera noa te papakupu whakamārama V. I. Dalya, unu ake i roto i te waenganui o te rau tau XIX. I roto i te reira te kaituhi Russian tino me Taha'i faaite te piira ki "koe" rite te ahua fakakehei o peu.

Ano, i te tetahi o ona oko faaite ia faaino o aua kaiako e whakaaro reira e tika ana, me te tae noa tika ki te mea ki ana akonga, "koe", kaua ki te ki te faahepo ia ratou ki te tahuri i runga i te "koe" ki a ia. Na ka taea e te tūranga taua meinga anake te ataata, engari he hawhe rau ki muri, ka kitea ia maha kaitautoko.

Politics, whakaekea te kupu rā

I muri noa iho i te Hui-tanguru Revolution, i whakakorea te ta o te Kawanatanga Takitaro me rarangi piha haapiiraa. Haere whakapumautia mua momo o te maimoatanga ki ratou māngai. Āpiti atu ki a ratou i hinga ki disuse me te kupu o mua "ariki" me "ma'am", conceding i muri i te Oketopa Revolution te wahi whänui ana te whakaaetia i roto i nga wa Soviet, "tangata", "tangata" sexless ─ "hoa" ranei, ngā ki e rua tangata me nga wahine. Heoi, ko te tono ki te "koe" ora, hoko tetahi o nga ture taketake o te ritenga kupu hou.

I roto i ētahi wā whāngai reira, kōrero ki te interlocutor, ka mea "koe"?

E ai ki nga tikanga whänui ana te whakaaetia o te whanonga, mahi tenei kei te matua i roto i ngā āhuatanga ōkawa: i mahi, i roto i ngā pūtahi me ngā wāhi tūmatanui. I te wa ano ki te mea "koe" tikanga i roto i te mau huru e whai ake nei:

1. A, no te whakahaere i te kōrero kei te ki te tauhou noa te tangata ke ranei.
2. Ki te mea he mōhio ki te taha, engari ngā i roto i whanaunga e pā ana, pērā i hoa mahi, ngā ākonga me ngā kaiako, kaiwhakahaere me rangatira.
3. I roto i te wā ka whai koe ki te tahuri ki te kanohi i te tau pakeke ranei ki te amo mau ti'araa faatere.
4. I te pae hopea, rangatira, me te tautoko ngā kaimahi o ngā toa, wharekai, hotels, me ētahi atu ngä o tenei ahua.

I roto i tenei take, kia mahara tonu koe e te piira ki "koe" ki te tangata ke, ko te täkupu e whakapumautia e te ture taketake o te whanonga.

I roto i ētahi wā, kia waiho hei tono i runga i "koe"?

I roto i etahi, āhuatanga nuinga ōpaki, ture o te ritenga kupu tukua he tono ki a "koutou." Ko reira e tika ana i te mahi, ka kōrero hoa i waho te hōkai o te mahi, me te kāinga ranei i runga i tau faafaaearaa. he puka taua o te maimoatanga kia he faaiteraa o whanaunga hoa i waenganui i nga interlocutors, a ki te haapapu i te āhua ōpaki o te whakahaere. Heoi, ki te karo i taka ki te āhuatanga rorirori, kia whanau ai i roto i te ngakau e ki mea "koe" he whakaaetia anake:

1. mohio Katia o te tangata nei i ki te mahi ki te aroaro o, me te whanaungatanga e tukua ki te whakarerea e atu pākaha whakaritenga ōkawa ki te hapai i.
2. Ngā pakeke korero ki tamariki taiohi ranei.
3. I roto i te tautuhinga ōpaki ki te teina ranei rite i roto i te nahanaha.
4. I roto i te kōrero i waenganui i ngā tamariki me ngā mātua iho hou taea hoki te whakamahi o "koe" rite te tetahi me te tahi atu rōpū.
5. Te tamarikitanga, me te kōrero o ngā tamariki i waenganui i hoa, ara ki te kore e ratou maheni ki ia atu.

E ai ki nga ture whänui ana te whakaaetia o ngā ritenga kupu, whakaaro maimoatanga "koe" tangata taitamariki tino Kāore (e rua i roto i te tau, me te i roto i te tūranga pāpori e pā ana ranei) ki te matua. I roto i te tua, he tohu o tikanga kino, me te reka kino ko te ara o te mea "koe" ki kaimahi i roto i te tokotoko o pūtahi.

Te mita o ngā kaiwhakahaere kōrero ki to ratou tokotoko

He wāhanga nui o te ture o te whanonga i roto i te hapori, ko te ki te whakahaere i te whakamahi o "koe" me te "koe" i roto i te hau e maminga ki te kaimahi. Te kore te haere ki tua atu i te rohe o te whai whakaaro, ka taea e te kaiwhakahaere te kōrero ki te kaimahi "koe" anake, ki te he ia te whai wāhi ki te whakautu ki reira i roto i te ara ōrite. Ka puta mai tēnei ka tāutatia ōpaki whanaungatanga i waenganui i a ratou. Kore, ko te tohutoro ki te kaimahi, ki te "koe" e waiho he takahi mata'ā'aá o ngā ritenga kupu.

Whakatūnga o ngā momo ōpaki o wāhitau

Ko te paerewa tikanga rangatira te tikanga whakaaetia whakarato mo te whakawhiti i waenganui i nga hoa ki te "koe" ki "koe." Heoi, ko reira taea anake i roto i te hunga wā i reira i waenganui i whakaturia ratou te momo o te hononga e tika ana e taea ana ki te whakakapi i roto i te kōrero tono ōkawa ki te mahana me te hoa. Ko te tikanga, tohu tenei e te huru i rahuitia kūpapa mua ngā-ki tahi e te tahi, kua homai te ara ki te tetahi pūtahitanga.

Me kï reira e whakarato nga tikanga whänui ana te whakaaetia o te whanonga, he tetahi wā o te wā e tika ana ki te teití on i te wa he tono ki "koe" kua hoatu ara ki te tuwhera atu me hoa "koe". Tei Ko tōna roanga katoa i runga i te mau huru whaiaro o te interlocutors me tūkunga waho.

He mea nui ki te hopu lhianga te kau i roto i te mea ka taea ki te whakahere i te hoa i roto i te whakahaere haere i runga i "koe", pera i roto i te take o te hapa, me tana kore e te taniwha, whakatika āhuatanga tuke. Na reira, ki te huri i te puka o te maimoatanga he tika ki te ite i te hiahia o tona hoa. Unilateral taua whakawhiti i roto i te whakahaere i runga i te "koe" Ko tino Kāore, no te mea heipü ka i titiro reira rite te kore o te faatura ki te hoa, ka atu ki te tau'a ore o te reira.

A, no te te ōpaki "koe" homai ara ki te pakari ake "koe"

whakarato hoki Speech ritenga o te reo Russian he whakawhitinga i te hoa "koe" atu ōkawa "koe", engari i roto i te ora ia rā puta reira pinepine. Otiia, he mea ka taea i roto i te wā i reira i te mauähara o te hononga i waenganui i te interlocutors ka tangohia te āhua pono ōkawa. kia puta tenei rite ki te hua o te take riri tetahi rerekētanga matua ranei.

I te tahi taime i te tono ki te "koe" pea he putanga o te meka e he ōkawa i roto i te natura te whakahaere, me te puta i roto i te aroaro o nga tangata kāore i nei e te nuinga o nga taha korero ki tetahi ki tetahi "koe" i ki te ū ki te ritenga whānui. I roto i tenei take, whakatutuki tahi i te tahi rite "koe" whakaatu kore e pā ana ki te rerekē haere ngā hononga pāhekoheko, engari anake i runga i te āhuatanga āhuatanga motuhake. Hei tauira, ngā kaiako i roto i te aroaro o nga ākonga ahu ki te kōrero ki ia atu "koe", ahakoa, mahue anake, i raro i ngā āhuatanga e tika ana, e taea te ōpaki "koe".

puka Tikanga tuhituhi o te maimoatanga

Katoa o nga ture i runga o te ritenga me kitea i roto i te wā i reira e kore he waha, me te i roto i te tuhituhi i te kōrero. I roto i tenei take, i te tūpou koutou me a koutou e ki te pukapuka whakapaipai ko te ahua o te peu ki tetahi anake ūnga ngā. Ki te tahuri te reta atu tuhinga ranei ki te tokomaha o nga tangata, kia tuhituhia te tūpou i roto i te vahine rau ki te take o raro reta (iti). Tuhia "koe" ki te pukapuka whakapaipai, kōrero ki te tangata ake i te kotahi, ko te hape.