Hinga tamariki mōrearea pārekareka

Tere rere te hauwhā tuatahi o te tau kura hou: nga tamariki tupu, huringa, te whakaatu i tatou i te whaiaro hou. Well, ki te whiwhi pakeke nga mātua me te whakaaro iti, ki te whakaae ki enei huringa me te tauturu i te tamariki tupu ake.

Tino maha, Heoi, mau te tau tamariki raruraru i muri mātua atu kaitiaki.

"Ko reira pai, me te ata noho, i te kore i taea e te koati ngokingoki," - e ai ta whaea polutoragodovalogo tamaiti.

"Kihai i tuku ia haere o toku whaea, me ahau i te wa katoa vahi ki piki" - amuamu kōhungahunga kuia-tau-tau.

"Tahuri koati Cool ki te Tomboy whakakeke", - amuamu ia papa i te-tau e toru tama.

"Tino kore hiahia ki te ako, to tatou ki te mahi i tahi kāinga" - te raruraru matua i roto i te tiaki wā roa-waiho maha whaea teina ākonga.

"Hē Rawa nga ringa" - kua rongo katoa a tawhio noa e pā ana ki te taiohi.

A pehea uaua ko reira, ka hāngai ana kotahi tamaiti tau raruraru ki te whanau atu raruraru ranei!?

A timata ngā mātua ki te piri ki te whakaaro e e te mea e tika ana ki te hoki nga mea katoa hoki, kia rite ki mua, e ngana ana ki te feruri i roto i pehea ki te pei i roto i te pouaka, me pehea ki te tiki i te tamaiti ki te kia whakamarie mo te mātauranga. Whakamātauria mahi kore hepohepo, me te kore e hoatu koe i roto i te he kore ko te taua rite ratou tūmanakohia e ratou tamaiti. Hea konei kia whakaaro e pā ana ki te āhua o tenei āhuatanga pakeke psychologically ki te tamaiti.

I roto i tenei tikanga, matou, nga matua o te rau tau 21, he mea nui māmā ake i ko reira te matua o whakatupuranga o mua, no te mea whai mōhiohio e wātea ana e e te tauturu ia ki te hinga matou me ki tatou tamariki ki te raruraru o nāianei tatou.

Otiia e kore e rawa noa to tatou mau metua, a whakaaro e pā ana ki taua i roto i ngā tamariki i reira ko te wairua, e rite ana i roto i te mua o ratou ko te mahi tino rerekē: ki te whakarite i te haumaru taketake o te tama i roto i ngā o te kai, whakaruru, ae, heke mai atu iti iho ranei tonutia.

I te tahi atu te ringa, he nui atu uaua tatou, no te mea i roto i te hapori hou ohie atu mātua atu ko reira 50 tau ki muri hanga. Mea tiketike-kōtaha "whanaketanga wawe" he tahi mea utu! A kahore e pā ana ki "whakaaetanga ao" o to tatou mau taime o whakapehapeha (i te kupu "semeio") tino rongo katoa i roto i tetahi ara mau metua mātau tamariki.

Nahea tatou e nehenehe e tauturu i ta tatou mau tamarii ki te tupu ake, kahore ka heke ki a ratou haurangi?

Ko te huarahi māmā ki te hanga hari te tamaiti, me te whakawhanake i tona maramarama - he ki te tākaro ki a reira! Play aha e hiahia ana ia ki te tākaro ki te anaanatae, i te weriweri, ki te māna tamariki. Kia mahara, he aha e whakamahia e koe ki te tākaro me te noho i te iti rawa 15 meneti o te kēmu ki tou tamaiti e tipu.

He nui atu uaua i roto i te wa raruraru mo tino tango taua mea mo te mea ko taua mea, me nga hiahia katoa, wehi, me te tahi atu e kore te mea tonu kare ahuareka mo tatou te tamaiti. Na tango nga kare tamaiti māmā ki a ia te tangata ia ia i te aroaro ki ona mau mana'o ake me faaiteraa aronganui. Mahi i runga i te whanaketanga o to ratou ake maramarama aronganui, a ka taea e koe te riro i te kaiako pai mo koutou tamaiti.

He mea tino nui mō te katoa, ahakoa o tau, ki te hei ki te tangata e matau ana, ka tiaki ki nga mau vero katoa me mau ati o te ora, i whakapono ai matou i roto i, te tautoko, whakarongo me te korero. I roto i te hinengaro, i reira he mea tiaki noa he tangata taua te wā "whakaata aroha."

A feruri na i te faufaa rahi te reira no te he tamaiti e te huri, titiro hoki ia ki te kati ahiri koe!

E kore e te tamaiti mohio ki tetahi mea e pā ana ki ia, kite ia ia kia rite ki te kite ia tata. Katoa tohutoro ki reira - i roto i te kupu atu, te mita, tohu, ara i roto i te puku - korero tatou te tetahi tamaiti e pā ana ki reira.

Titiro, me pehea e whakahaere koe ki te tango i tō tamaiti.

Ki tenei pito, i runga i te dney̆ toru i muri tamata ki te tatau i te tini o nga wa i whakatata koe ia ki huru fakaeongo pai me te nui o te kino (whakatupehupehu, karanga, parau kritikoy̆).

Hoki moni tohanga pai i roto i te putea puninga otdelnyy̆, mo te kino - kēmu. Just tamata kore ki te mahi i tenei i roto i to koutou whakaaro, a mau whakakopa moni me ngā kēmu i roto i te wahi motuhake. Ko te meka e taea te feruriraa ia ta'oto tākaro ki a koutou he kata kino: tukunoa'i koe mahi e hiahiatia, me te i roto i tona ngakau anake ki te hoatu moni.

Ki te te maha o tohutoro kino rite ki atu pai ranei, ka koe e kore kōrero tika katoa.

Na kati koutou kanohi, me te whakaaro e whakatau koe tou hoa pai (ranei kaumeá). Me pēhea e whakaatu koutou e pai ai ia e e tika ia rori, me te tata?

Na inaianei, tēnā manako koutou ake tamaiti: i te ata, ka i tika ia rų ake; ra, ka hoki ia ki te whakangungu; i roto i te ahiahi, ka haere mai ia ki te tina ... e kore e wehi ki te "pahua" ia i roto i te hunga meneti, ko reira tino e taea.

A amo i te mahi e rua o mua, te aufauraa i whakarongo ki te tauhohenga o te tamaiti, me i ratou ake mana'o, rawa. Karangatia hoki koe enei mau mana'o, whakaahua ratou i hohoro i roto i te tinana (kōnae pea koe tetahi wahi mana'o, a pea, i runga i te anga ke, tupu "parirau"), i tetahi whakaaro haere koe ki enei take.

Kia mau ki tō tamaiti, ki atu ki a ia te nui o te aroha koutou ki a ia, whakapono koe i roto ia ia, he koa e whai koe i te reira ki a koutou. Ngā ngākau nuitanga o te ora tamaiti, ana kare, ona hoa. Pono whakarongo ki te ataata mau, te āwhina titiro pai i te ao, te āwhina ki te kite i roto i nga raruraru o te raruraru, te āwhina tātari me hapa tika. Titiro haere te ara i roto i o āhuatanga uaua.

Ako hohe whakarongo koutou tamariki (e pā ana ki te whakarongo kaha, ka taea e koe te pānui i roto i te pukapuka Yu Gippenreiter "Kōrero ki tō tamaiti. Pehea?" Na whakarongo ki free rauemi ipurangi karapu rēhia hinengaro).

Na kia mahara ki te parau faahiahia: "whakatoatoa te tamaiti rite pai rite taea e."

I te tahi taime (engari mau tonu) hei utu o te tai'oraa whakaware, e hiahia ana koe ki te wahi i atu i ta ratou mau ohipa faufaa a corny ki te horo'ai te taime ki te tamaiti. Play a kōrero ki a koutou tamariki.