e kore he tane maui te wā tuatahi? Ranei tetahi atu banal i mawhiti tuatahi, he take mo tukanga whakarere? Na, āhua i whakamarie iho, whakaaro e pā ana ki reira, ite koe e reira he kore ora, kahore te aroha tetahi, i kau te whare? He reira he ara ao pehea ki te hoki ki tana tahu i roto i te utuafare, kua ki te kua puta te whakarere?
Ko te aromatawai tika o te āhuatanga - he taurangi o te mahi pono
Whakamātauria ki matau i te take pakiaka o koutou whakarere. Mahalo koe me tou tane oho atu i tetahi ki tetahi, e kore i makona ai ki nga tikanga ora ranei? Ake i te take - te ahua i roto i tona ora o tetahi wahine, Heoi, ko reira ōrite ki te mate o te moni, me te whakaute hoki tana wahine. A e kore e wareware ki te tātari i te katoa o ratou ake mahi, me te huru āta ki te tane o mua. Pea ia tika ka ngenge o te mitimiti tamau me te tautohe i te wahanga.
Na, mohio ki tana i tupu, ka whiwhi koe ona ake tātai o pehea ki te hoki ki tana tahu i roto i te utuafare. Ki te kua kore mahi koe, te reira te wā ki te mahi i to ratou ake mahi. I te anga ke, ki te noho te tikanga kei te katoa tona wa e manawapa, me whakaaro, he mea utu whakaaro e pā ana ki te neke ki tetahi atu kamupene ara te huringa o te mahi ranei. Whakamātauria ki te mahi ano hoki i runga i to outou huru - ki te kia atu ahua, me te kaungāongo'i kore mamae, tamata ki te pehea e o te mau hapehape, mukākā koutou ex-hoa.
Me pēhea te ki te hoki tana tahu i muri i te whakarere? Whakatika katoa i ko
Ki te ko e tika te parariraa o tou faaipoiporaa ki etahi raruraru kāinga, ngana ki te hanga kaha katoa ki te whakatau ia ratou. ora Independent me rauemi taonga i te pānga nui i runga i te āhuarangi i roto i te utuafare. I roto i te aroaro o ngā tamariki, kia whakaaro e pā ana ki te whakahaere o ratou mātauranga. Kua tonu koe taea ki te maha noho ki tahi te tane? Ki te kahore he te whakahoki, te reira te wā ki te whakaako i ngā tamariki ki te haere ki te toro whanaunga ranei kitea he ua tafifi te haere mai ki te wiki. Kaua e wareware ki te mahi ki a ratou. Pea e hiahia ana koe ki te huri i te titiro, te mahi i etahi mahi ngā i roto i te tua ki te mahi taketake etahi o ratou watea ranei. ora Interesting - te reira he ara nui ki te mawhiti i to ratou mau fifi. E mea pinepine kōrero ki hoa, noho wa i roto i nga wahi ngā, me te kore e whakakahore ia koe i roto i ngā wheako hou.
Me pēhea te ki te hoki tana tahu ki te whānau, ka te wa mo te mahi?
Na inaianei e taea anō-whakaingoa koe i te wahine ngā me angitu, engari kua kite i pā ana ki te hoa o mua? Kaua rautaki hoki te āhua o ki te hoki i te moni o tana tahu, e kore e te āwhina, ki te kore koe e tīmata ki te kōrero anō. Ko te kōwhiringa pai, ka noho tahi ana koutou tamariki, a ka hiahia Papa ki te kōrero ki a ratou. Ki te kore ko koutou āhuatanga tenei, ka taea e koe tamata ki te rapu "kōpeka" hui ranei whakahere ki te haere tonu tika kōrero. Engari kia mahara ki: ki te hiahia tino koe ki te ako e founga ki te hoki ki tana tahu i roto i te hapu, tetahi o nga ture matua - whaiaro e whiwhi-. Ahakoa, ki te whai kino koutou, ka kino ia, e kore e whakaatu i to ratou aroha ngoikore. Whakamātauria ki te kōrero aroha me marie, ka hiahia koe ki te hoatu kōrero e pā ana ki o ratou angitu, engari ano hoki i runga i te hiahia ki te pato'ii te tenei. kia titiro te pūrongo taua rite whakamanamana. e kia te kōwhiringa pai ki te kōrero ki te kaupapa kūpapa me te ngahau, me te iri i roto i.