Aroha, whaiāipo

People whakatau, hinga iwi i roto i te aroha ... E kore tonu hamumu ake, a kahore tonu ki te aroha. I te tahi taime, ko te aroha ngākau, rite te hunga whiriwhiri ranei whiriwhiri tetahi aroaro i roto i te whakautu ki te mahanahana o tona ngakau, me te wairua, a ka he aroha, whaiāipo. Ko te tino uaua te take whakamutunga, rite pāngia rawatia e kore anake te wairua, engari ano hoki i te kiritau-o te tangata. I muri i te katoa, i tetahi moe o taua i roto i tona ora i reira ko te ngawari me te aroha tahi - hinengaro i roto i tenei whakaaro i te katoa rite.

He aha ki te mahi me te pehea, ki te hei, ki te ta'e'amanekina haere mai to koutou ora te aroha, whaiāipo?

Tuatahi, i tona hiahia ki te pehea o wawe tonu. He aha ta koutou ite i? Ki te mahi i tenei, tūtohu kaimātai hinengaro te whakamahi o tikanga motuhake. He mea tino nui ki te whakapuaki i tana whāinga pai, ka haere hoki reira. Me pēhea te ki te mahi i te reira? Ko reira e minaminatia ki te wareware te kuhimua katoa kino "kahore" me te sioloto mōrahi e hiahiatia ana, a kahore e hurihia. e kore te e whakaritea i runga i te mea e hiahia ana koe ki te tango i to koutou ora. Hei whakatutuki i te whāinga e hiahiatia ana, whakaaro koutou mahi ki runga ki a koe - māia, te tangata tino noa, i roto i te mua o e oroko maha ngā whai wāhitanga (me te whiriwhiri o te hoa fakasekisualé). Te tangata e mamae i tona aroha ma'unimā, kia i te iti rawa tamata ki mahara koutou mau mana'o i mua i te whakaminenga ki te ahanoa o te aroha, whaiāipo. e kore e aroha, whaiāipo kawea tetahi pai i roto i te ora o te tangata, na kia mau ki nga mau mana'o, a tamata i te tikanga katoa ki te kukume i te ahanoa o ana auetanga whakanohoia i roto i te whatunga hanga kahore tikanga. Me tamata tatou ki te pehea e o tenei "whakawhirinaki".

Kotahi te tangata e he aroha, whaiāipo, he ki relive me te mahara te mana'o faahiahia o te haere noa tino i etahi, motuhake, he tikanga o te whaiaro utu-a kitá-, a kia kite pēhea te pai tino he reira nui - ki te whakahaere i tona tinana, me te wairua, a kahore e ti'aturi i runga i o karanga waea te tangata kanohi, a. He tikanga o te otinga o te oranga i he taua haamana'oraa, a kia tākaro he wāhi mo te tangata - tuatahi torutoru meneti o te oaoa, na te haora, te ra, te wiki, me ētahi atu Ka taea e koe te whakaaro pehea pa koe ki te kite i te kaiwhakahaere kiriata pai-mohiotia, whakaekea ki te takaro i te tūranga o te womanizer noho nakohakoha hari nei anake e e oaoa te ora (a taea kotiro whakaaro ratou i roto i te tūranga o te whaiaro-māia, me te rawa sexy he uwha e whakamahi tangata anake mo o ratou ake hiahia, me te pai).

A feruri na, ite noa ki te moemoea, me te whakaaro e i te hua whakamātautau mata tei katoa i runga i tou mahi kiriata, ara ranei - i to outou ora katoa a muri. e kore te Tetahi kaiwhakahaere hiahiatia noa hoki nga patene pouri, aroha ohoohonga, rite Piero i korero patupaiarehe o te tamariki rongonui. hanga ana tēnei kiriata he tangata hari, anaanatae, titiro i te ao hei koati harakore ki runga ki te ipu rongoa ki tou kirīmi tio tino. Ko te mea matua - he hiahia kaha ki te tamata i te ara rerekē, me te whakaaro iti me te puai i tata tetahi tangata.

I roto i te mutunga, ka taea e tatou te mea e kore te mea e tika ana i te mea e whai koutou i roto i te ora e wahi aroha, whaiāipo, tonu peke i runga i o ratou moenga o te iwi rerekē i roto i te ngana ki te wareware mo te ahuareka nanakia (i te ara, inu i te wa ano e kore e waiho!). Ko te pai ki te mahara e ora to tatou whenua nui te iwi kia maha (me te sex ritenga - tata e toru piriona iwi), me te tikanga o te reira e whai koe i te tupono i roto i te ora ki te kitea to ratou pai ahurei. kanohi New, hui hou, kare hou e āwhina i ki faanevaneva i te raruraru, me te kitea i te zest mo te ora. Tangohia te poroporoaki faafaaearaa, me te haere vahi tawhiti, te wahi i reira he rite nga tūemi me wahi kia fakamanatu koe o te huru kotahi. Mahalo e ko te wahi e kitea e koe i te aroha hari.