Aroraa - Ko te tikanga whai hua i roto i te tohutohu hinengaro

Tetahi rerekē tūranga, ngā ngākau nuitanga, waiaro i huaina aroraa. I roto i te ngā whānui, he riri - he taupatupatunga o ngā maiorooro i roto i ngā pūnaha pāpori. Ka taea e ēnei hei rerekētanga piha haapiiraa, frictions whakaaro wä, me te tōrangapū, me ētahi atu Heoi, kei te tuku tenei wā hoki ki rite tetahi o te matatini tino me, i te wa ano, tikanga whai hua i roto i te tohutohu hinengaro. Fakakaukau ki he me'a taputapu whakamahia tonu i roto i ngā wā tohutohu, me te aroraa i roto ia ratou tu i roto i.

Kōrero ki te kaimātai hinengaro - e kore e tika i te "whaki"

mai te tangata ki te tohunga ki te raruraru motuhake, i i tamata ia ia ki te whakaoti, ngā ki whanaunga, hoa, pea noa nga mata. Ko te raruraru tonu, me te kaimātai hinengaro e he fatongia nui. Me wetewete e ia nga whakaaro matatini, mana'o hape, ki te tiki ki te pono, me te whakaatu i te reira ki te kiritaki. Na reira, i roto i te mara o te ngaio wairua tangata e kore e whakarongo noa ki te kiritaki, engari ki te mohio me pehea ki te tū pātai, whakarato mātau tikanga o te mea i rongo ia, whakapae, i ētahi wā noa ki te tomo ki te riri ki te kiritaki ki te whakaatu ki a ia te ngako o ona raruraru ki te kiritaki ki te kite me te matau te aha kite ahau i te kaimātai hinengaro.

Techniques i roto i te tohutohu hinengaro

rawea, poto te taketake hangarau e whakamahia ana e te kaimātai hinengaro:

• Te aniraa i te mau uiraa - ratou e taea te haamaramaramaraa me whakaaro-whakapataritari.
• Haapapûraa me te faaitoitoraa rite mau faaiteraa o te aroha, me te whakaaetanga kiritaki.
• rongo hangarau whakaata me te kōrero kiritaki ihirangi.
• Okioki o puku - hoatu te kiritaki te whai wāhi ki te ngaungau i te mōhiohio, me te kaimātai hinengaro ki te whakaaro.
• Whakapae me te tikanga.
• Aroraa - he tikanga e titau te motuhake hinengaro pūkenga, te māia, me te tetahi mahi.

Aroraa i roto i te hinengaro me te hinengaro

A, no te parau i te kiritaki te kaimātai hinengaro e pā ana ki tona raruraru, e kore ia e taea e titiro ki reira i te waho. Mai te hītori o te kiritaki - he āhuatanga ki tetahi anake ringa, ko te taniwha, te kōrero ngā whakahēnga reira i roto i te whakaritenga, tauākī, mau mana'o, te tangata. E kore e te kiritaki noa kite ai, na te mahi o te mātanga - ki te whakaatu ki a ia enei ngā whakahēnga. Ko te tikanga, ko te aroraa - ko tetahi tauhohenga ki te kaimātai hinengaro, i te mea ke i te whanonga o te kiritaki whakaritenga ranei. tomo Kaitohutohu ki te tangata i roto i te ahua o te aroraa, te whawhai ki te whakaatu ki a ia katoa ana tinihanga, evasions, me ētahi atu Mā te whakamahi i enei tinihanga, te kiritaki e kore e mohio e tinihanga hoki ia; tenei ahua o te tiaki i te mōhiohio e kia tohu ai ko ia ki kupu mo te raruraru. Me kï reira e te riri - e kore ko te huarahi ki te kiritaki o whakaitinga tenei, ka hangaia ngā taputapu ki te āwhina ia ia. whakamahia te aroraa i roto i ngā take e toru:

1. A, no te e hiahia ana koe ki te utu whakarongo o te kiritaki ki te totohe i roto i tona whakaritenga, mau mana'o, whakaaro, whanonga me ona whakaaro.
2. A, no te kore e taea e te kiritaki kite i te āhuatanga tautika hoki o ratou iho mau mana'o hape, me ngā hiahia.
3. A, no te pohehe nunumi mai i te matapaki āhuatanga motuhake me ngā raruraru i te kiritaki.

Mā te whakamahi i te riri i roto i tona mahi, me matau te kaimātai hinengaro ratou fatongia, i nga pūkenga ki te mahi pai, i roto i tetahi take, e kore e whakamahi i te reira rite te ara o te whiu whakangaromanga ranei o tikanga tiaki kiritaki.