He aha e hiahia ana koe mo te whakarere? Hangarau me tūtohutanga

Te nuinga o te hunga i aroha hoatu iti whakaaro ki te mea he tika i roto i te tikanga ki te marena. Ko te whakahoki ki tēnei pātai e taea te hoatu tata katoa: e tūtohu ana ki te whakapā atu i te mana o te tari rēhita. Ko konei, i reira he pera nohopuku taea te tiki e koe he whakahoki ki te raruraru e te mea e tika ana mo te whakarere?

Ko te tukanga māmā - whakahaere, ka whakarite i te tari rēhita. Ka waiho tenei pea mo te hunga hoa faaipoipo e whai tamariki tahi (ngā rangatahi i), me te whai ratou whakaae tahi. Tuatahi, e hiahia ana koe ki te tono. E rua ngā kōwhiringa ka taea:

• Tenei tono tahi;
• tuhituhi kotahi hoa faaipoipo i te tauākī me te tahi atu hainatia me notarized waitohu.

He aha e hiahia ana koe mo te whakarere ano? Me kohia te reira i te tuhinga e whai ake nei:

1. Receipt whakau kua utua te ohipa pane hāngai.
2. Ko te tuhinga, i whakau te tuakiri o tangata whakarere (uruwhenua).
3. tiwhikete te faaipoiporaa Original.

Mai i te rā o te tāpaetanga o te tono me haere i te marama. Next, haere mai te tokorua ki te tari rēhita, me, te whakau i tona hiahia ki te whakarere, te tiki i te tuhinga mōhiohio - he tiwhikete o tona whakakorenga me te pane i roto i te uruwhenua - "whakataka Faaipoiporaa ...". Ko te tino māmā tenei tukanga.

Ko e hiahia ana koe ki te whakarere, ki te te mahere tokorua ki "wehe" te taonga tahi me ngā tamariki? Ko te otinga anake ki tenei raruraru - ko reira e tika ana ki te haere ki te kōti. tūtohutia ana te taua tukanga ko i te kaupapa e kore ranei, mē i whakarere tetahi o nga hoa faaipoipo. Hanga he rahui, e tenei ahua o te wā whakarere e me matatini whai he maha nui o onäianei.

Tuatahi, e kore e te marae hanga he whakatau i runga i whakarere, ki te ko te tamaiti i raro i te tau, me toku whaea ki a ia.

Tuarua, i roto i te take o te, whakahē rānei whakataha o te tangata o nga hoa faaipoipo, me te tona tae-kore i roto i te marae, hanga te toru o nga hui te whakatau whakamutunga e pā ana ki te whakarere.

A toru, e hiahia ana koe ki te whakaoti tonu ngā take matatini, me te ki te hanga i te kerēme e pā ana ki o tamariki, me ngā rawa tahi te whakarau.

Na reira, i roto i te tua ki te tuku iho, me nga peeke i runga ake-whakahuatia, e hiahia ana koe ki te faaineine i te whai ake tuhinga mō te whakarere i roto i te marae:

• titau hoki wehenga o taonga;
• kerēme ki te hei i te whakarau o ngā tamariki, me ngā whakaritenga alimony.

I muri tono te huinga o ngā tuhinga, kia rite ki te ture, ka tango i te marama, i roto i nei kia tae i roto i te mēra i te kaupapa o te rā whakaritea me te wā o te whakarongo.

He aha te mea e hiahiatia ana mo te whakarere hohoro inaianei? Anake te manawanui, kia hoki ka ui nga hoa faaipoipo pātai e pā ana ki te take mo te tiango o te faaipoiporaa, te aroaro o ara o te houhanga rongo, me te pera i runga i. Ka rite ki te tikanga, e kore e tangohia nga wa katoa te marae te whakatau ki te whakarerea tonu, hoatu wā ki te whakaaro. Na reira, ki te mea i reira te mea he whakatau whakamutunga ki te tiki i te whakarere, kia mohio ki te tohe i runga reira. I roto i tenei take, kua reira ki te kia whakarongo utua ki te taumira o ngā kerēme, me herenga o te alimony.

Engari kia rite ki te tikanga, taua tukanga i te āhuatanga o te rou. Mai kia te marae:

• e kore te whakatau i nga kereme o tetahi o nga hoa faaipoipo, e homai ki a ia i te tika ki te tīmata anō whakahaere;
• ki te faataime i te whakatau i runga i te take mā te hoatu i te tokorua i te wā mo ki a ratou haere mai ki ngā, a na i runga i.

I roto i tetahi take, te whakarere ture e taea toia ki runga ki mo nga tau maha, pahua raru "mua", me te whawhati i te konä o tamariki, e tīmata maha ki "share", "aroha" te mau metua.

Na, i mua i te tīmata koe whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea e hiahia ana koe mo te whakarere, e tūtohu ana tamata i te tokorua ki te whakarongo ki tetahi ki tetahi, hanga hononga ki to koutou aroha kotahi te tangata, me te karo i te tukanga matatini, me te kino rite tona whakamutunga i roto i te kōti. E tūtohutia ana ki te whakaae noa a ratou ano.