Kino ana te aha? Ko te mana'o o te mauahara

He ongo rawa kaha aronganui he mauahara. He aha te mea te mauahara me te aha ngā kia meinga tona ahua? Ngā kaimātai hinengaro whakaaro e te tīmatanga whakaurua te tangata te hiahia mo te mauahara, i wā hokona e ia i pai ai. Mō tenei huru aau kino aparau i tatou i roto i tenei tuhinga.

Ko te whakamāramatanga

Ko to te mauahara - he roa, kaha, mana'o tōraro, e whakaata ana i te whakakonekone, riri, makanga o te ahanoa ngā. kia ratou hei takitahi ranei rōpū o iwi, hei ahanoa popohe ranei tītohunga. Karangatia taea tenei aau e te ahanoa ranei mahi te kounga tūturu ki reira. Ka taea e kino koe te whakaaro, anga ke ki ngā whakapono me ngā uara o te kaupapa, he āhuatanga e whai he pānga tōraro i runga i tona ora, ka taea te whakatutuki i ngā hiahia nui hoki ia. Ka taea te pēnei mana'o kino kaha ki te whakamatautau o te hari i tetahi kore o te ahanoa o kare, me te hiahia ki a ia o te kino katoa, a tae noa te hiahia ki te kino ki a ia.

take o

Ko to te mauahara taea ara ake i te mea tino iti, me te iti. Ko reira horihori kitea o enei take ue'i kaimātai hinengaro ki te hoatu mua te putanga o te hiahia tangata primordial mō te riri. Tenei ongo taea te ngāwari kawea whare i te waho. Kei te maha whawhai me ētahi atu momo o fepaki pāpori me te hapori tahi e te whakatö-tika ana, tuaiwiroa mauahara i roto i te iwi. Ko to te mauahara o te manene, ara faito o te ora, tikanga me ngā uara whakaoho hara urupa ki te rōpū ngā takitahi ranei. Ahakoa kia puta huru kaikiri i roto i te pā ana ki ia, ki te mana'o te takitahi e kore e tae ia te taumata tika o ona kerēme. I roto i ia take ko reira e tika ana ki te kitea e te take o te hononga kino ki te kaupapa o te mauahara, ka whakatika taea te whakatau te pakanga, a ka mariri kare kaikiri.

Aroha a kino

Kei te whakapono te reira e e tino whakahē enei ariā e rua ki ia atu, me te he kupu tauaro. Heoi, i roto i te ahurea ngā huri noa te ao, e te tühonohono enei ari aronganui me te riro i te kotahitanga. E ngā aroha, me te kino e rua i roto i te tangata i roto i te pā ana ki te kaupapa o tona mana'o. Ko te āhua rua o enei kare ara ka mea a Freud. whakapono te kaitātari e ka he hononga te taniwha, kua papā i hanga e ngā ngā whakahēnga. Ētahi ethologists tautohe e pā ana te faaiteraa tukutahi o mauahara me te aroha i te tikanga hinengaro, me te tinana e whakarato he nehenehe o te whanaungatanga whaiaro hohonu, me te haafifi i tūturu ki fakaaoao e rua tangata me te kararehe.

He whakamārama taea hoki te hononga tata o te aroha me te mauahara takoto i roto i te meka e te atu whānui te takitahi ki tetahi atu tangata, i te atu tata-noho kotahi nei, e pā ana ia ki a taua mea, ka whai wāhi te kaha e tau i roto i tetahi hononga. Ko te kupu, puta tonu te pakanga i waenganui i whanaunga ki weriweri nui me te weriweri, i te waenganui i nga tangata ke. Te kore o ngā āhuatanga noa, me ngā ngākau nuitanga hanga te hoa tauwhainga ki te tango i te atu whāinga.

momo o te mauahara

tikanga irresistible o anuanu taea meinga tetahi mea. E ai ki te ahanoa o mauahara he maha ngā momo o mana'o ino. Hei tauira, i roto i te tua ki te pakeke, te wehewehe i ngā kairangahau i waenganui i te tamaiti me te mauahara. Ko te tikanga, kua hāngai te reira i te mau metua, i muri i te haere ki te hapu o tona teina tuahine ranei. karanga ngā kaimātai hinengaro te takanga o taua kare i roto i ngā tamariki "tikanga a Kaina."

He tino hononga wehi, me te mauahara. Ko te tangata ite mauahara i ki i te ahanoa, e, kia rite ki te mea ia ki te taea ki te kino ki a ia. Tenei faaiteraa o mana'o kino ētahi wā riro irresistible. Kua tāutuhia pūkenga e rave rahi ngā momo o pathologies:

• Mizogamiya - he tikanga whakapeka ki hononga faaipoiporaa.
• Misandry - te riri o wahine ki te tangata.
• Misogyny - wehi me te mauahara o nga tangata ki te wahine.
• Mizopediya - whakakonekone ki tamariki, tae atu ki tona ake.
• Misanthropy - mauahara ki te iwi i roto i te whānui.

Kei te whakapono te reira e te he tangata atu haapiihia ko, te iti kua ia take ki te ite mauahara, e ko te faaiteraa o te mau mana'o - te tūturu o takitahi ki maramarama iti, me te ngoikore-mea tohe ki.

momo o fakaaoao

Ka rite ki whakahuatia i runga ake, hanga reira he hiahia ki te kino tou ahanoa mauahara. Ka taea e te kino meinga he momo o huarahi, na kaimātai hinengaro he maha ngā momo o fakaaoao.

Waha, me te tinana

Ko te whakamahi o te kaha tinana ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou kare kino i huaina fakaaoao tinana. Riri, ki te whakaatu i roto i te puka o te tautohe, te tūkino, whakapae kōrero me tuma, waha whakaaro.

Autaki me hāngai

fakaaoao Direct hāngai tika i te ahanoa o mauahara, autaki - mahi reira, mahi i runga i tetahi atu tangata i roto i te ara taiawhio, i roto i kawekawe korero, ngahau kino, me te matekai me whakahaere o te riri (takahi o waewae, karanga, me te pera i runga i).

Waho, me te ā-

whakahaua waho mauahara waho, me te interior - ki runga ki a ia. faaite te whakamutunga ake i roto i te whakama-me te hiahia ki te kino-whaiaro.

Whaitake (hauora) me haamou

Ko ētahi wā uaua ki te whakatau i te rohe fakaaoao. Ētahi kite mauahara i roto i te whanonga kaha. Ki te he ātaahua te fakaaoao me langa◊i ai aroha, ka taea te huaina reira hauora whaitake ranei.

I roto i tēnei wāhanga e kore e momo katoa o faaiteraa o riri. Te ahua o te iwi mahi e tino auaha maha.

mauahara pāpori

He ko he ariā e pūtaiao me kaimātai hinengaro i huaina e te wā "mauahara pāpori". He aha te mea he āhuatanga rite? whakapono ētahi e tenei mana'o o riri anuanu, ka ua i te rōpū o te iwi. A, no te tenei ahanoa kore e mea faufaa o te mauahara. Etahi whakaaro e huaina tenei mana'o ko pāpori no te mea kua whakahaua te reira i te rōpū ngā o te iwi i te tangata motuhake rite te māngai o te hapori ranei. Ko nga taonga o te riri e taea e te whānuitanga o ngā huanga pāpori-e hāngai ana - te ira tangata, iwi, iwi, hōkakatanga, tau. I roto i te tikanga ā iwi ki te whakaahua i tenei ahua o te mauahara vai te ariā o "ātete." He he he māramatanga kuiti o te tumu parau. I te tahi taime i huaina pāpori mauahara riri piha haapiiraa. I te wa ano e whakakorea mauahara fakalotú, me te iwi.

hāngai mauahara pāpori i runga i ngā rerekētanga i waenganui i nga rōpū, a kua hoatu e ratou he irresistible, me te heipü arahi ki te uara papā. He ahua rerekē, ara o te ora, me ngā uara ahurea ko te take mo te aroraa nui. Te mea faahiahia, te whānuitanga o ēnei rerekētanga e kore e tākaro i te tūranga motuhake. Kino ana, riri i waenganui i whanaunga ahurea, ngā rōpū tata rite (āhua, ngā rōpū fakalotu, iwi) he nui atu tutu atu i waenganui i nga tangata ke ki tetahi ki tetahi hapori.

kino ana hara

I roto i te tahi mau whenua i reira ko te tohu motuhake i huaina he kino kino. Tenei ariā denoted maumaui mahia i raro i te mana o te tikanga ki etahi rōpū o te taupori. Tikanga, faarahi te whakarōpū taua te pakeke o te hara mahia. I roto i Russia, fakalotu, motu, ātete iwi hei take whakahōhā.

whakaaro te reira i roto i ngā āhua maha e he hoki hara mahi āta ki te whakarite kia reira ko te mauahara e te ka kia hāmenetia he faaiteraa o te riri i waenganui i ngā rōpū o te iwi. Hei tauira, i roto i te fakaaoao whakatö Russian ki rōpū pāpori - mahi whiu.

mutunga

I roto i tenei tuhinga i tamata matou ki te korero ki a koutou e ko te mauahara. He aha te momo o te mana'o e taea kawe i te tangata? I runga i te ringa kotahi, i roto i pota whaitake mobilizes tenei aau me karanga ki te mahi, ki tētahi atu - te whakangaromia e ratou kaupapa i roto, akina ia ki te mahi i te mahi poauau me te haamou. Ko te ora tatou i roto i te ao e hāngai ana e te i runga i te pakanga o fehangahangaí i roto i nga tītohunga he ona ake tikanga motuhake. haere e mauahara ringa i roto i te ringa ki te aroha, i runga i te parapara o te whaiaro tiaki-, faatupu te reira i te tangata ki te whakapuaki i nuitia feaa e pā ana ki te backlog. Me takitahi whaitake ako ki te hinga tenei mana'o kino whakapiko reira ki tona i pai ai, a ka ki te matau i te take mo tona takanga.