Me pēhea te ki te whakarerea e tana wahine

Te faataaraa he inaianei - reira tata rā, me te mōhio. Whatiia mau utuafare taitamariki me ngā whānau ki te wheako. Ko te he i o nga wahine, me te hara ki o nga tangata. Ko kahore mea nei ko te kaiwero o raru whānau, he kino nui hoki e rua whakarere tukanga.

tikanga ana tēnei tuhinga mō tane me homai etahi tohutohu me tūtohutanga i runga i, me pehea ki te tiki i te whakarere i tana wahine.

Na, kua tapoko matou i roto i te raumati o te aroha me te romance. Ngā, te hoha me aversions hei ora-hoa. Whanaungatanga ki te wahi i, me te hapu - ki runga ki te mimiha o tiango. I roto i toku matenga maranga wawe patu whakaaro ki te whakarere i tana wahine. Otiia me pehea ki te mahi i te reira, no te mea heipü aru e tangi me te roimata wahine, taunu me whakapae? Ahakoa whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea te reira wehiwehi. Otiia e kore e whakaaro rawa tenei e taea e. e kore e he ora taua kawea te oaoa, engari pouri me te mate tetahi mea.

Me pēhea te ki te whakarere i tana wahine kia kore e tenei tikanga hei fakamamahi mō ngā taha e rua? Tuatahi, ki te e whakatau koe ki te tango i tenei taahiraa, kia koutou tika me whakautu, e pā ana ki tana wahine. Ko te wawe tupu tenei, ka waiho iti te wa kiripiro. E te ara, ki te kore e whakatau, a kahore koutou e matau me pehea pai ki te mahi i tenei, ki te kōrero e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te whakarere i tana wahine, a taea e te tohunga. Te hinengaro i roto i tenei take e taea kia tino whai hua. Tümanako, o te akoranga, e kia ki te tiki i te whakaaetanga o nga hoa faaipoipo, a ki te kitea he ngātahitia i runga i ngā take katoa e puta i roto i te akoranga o whakahaerenga whakarere. Heoi, e kore te mea ohie ki te mahi. Hea e taea te tākaro koe i te tūranga "mea o parau tumu". A ka mahi i te wahine a tātau tetahi ki faariri. He kōwhiringa pai i roto i tenei take, a kore noa e huri i te wahi o te noho, ki te neke i roto i o te kohanga whānau, kia rite kore ki te whakahōhā i te āhuatanga.

Ko te wāhi nui mō te tokomaha e kia rongo karere tino mamae e taea e taui i te ora katoa o ngā tamariki (ki te tetahi). I roto i tenei take, ka hiahia koe tou itoito katoa, te manawanui, me te te here. e kore e tamariki i roto i tetahi take mamae kotahi ano. He whakarere me te mimiti haere o ratou ara maheni o te ora ki a ratou whaea, me te papa ka hoatu ki a ratou he ahotea tūturu me he ahua o te mate. ka tauturu i te tohunga i roto i te taua take ki te kitea te kupu tika, me te ki maeneene nga ngā koi.

I muri i te taahiraa nui rawa tuatahi (te karere ki tana wahine me te tamariki ki te rongo rawa) ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te totoro te tukanga: tuhinga hoki whakarere kia kohikohi me te tuku ki nga mana e hāngai ana e whakaroa. rīpene Whero kua 'aonga kahore tetahi.

I tatari hoki te momeniti whakatakotoria e ti'a ia tatou mahara te ture koura: e kore e wareware e hono kotahi koutou ki tenei wahine aroha, aroha me te taamuraa utuafare. e kore e taea te waiho i roto i te pai o te riri ki te takahia tenei katoa i roto i te kotahi pakaukau hinga. Te faataaraa i tana wahine kore e whakapataritari i te āhuatanga ki tua atu i te pareparenga o te mea kua tukua. Te faatura i te ora, ko te ngā me noho hoa mua, me te haere tonu rite puta noa te tukanga whakarere me i muri i te reira. Ko te ara pai i roto o tenei āhuatanga ka hei te tiaki o hoa whanaunga ki te hoa o mua. Tenei, o te akoranga, mahi kore pera ohie, engari ka taea. I tua atu, me mahara koutou ki nga tamariki, me te rawatia ki te puritia e ratou. I roto i tenei wā ia, ka pera ngāwari, kia kia tino tamata koe e kore e ki te kino ia ratou noa atu.

Ko tētahi atu wāhi nui i roto i te whakahaerenga whakarere ka hei te pātai o te wehenga o te taonga. Ko te raruraru mo te tokomaha o nga hoa faaipoipo ko te tutukitanga waewae. A i konei e kore e kino ia te reira ki te whakaatu manaaki me te ki mai ki tona whakatau ki te matauranga, tango ki pūkete te ngākau nuitanga whakahauanga o ngā tamariki. I roto i tenei take, kia ai taua mea e tika ana, me te ture tohutohu, a ētahi wā he rōia. Heoi, ka rite ki whakahuatia mua, he reira pai ki te kitea te otinga tau.

e kia te taahiraa hopea i te kawenata ki tana ex-wahine i runga i o koutou hui ki te tama, o te akoranga, ki te koutou e kore e whakatau tahi ana i ka tamariki (ranei tamariki) kia noho ki a koe. I raro i kore mau huru e kore e he whakarere waiho hei arai ki tou hononga ki tou krovinochku utuafare.

Na e matau ana koutou e founga ki te whakarere i tana wahine, a ki te mahi i te reira i roto i te ara ritenga.