I roto i enei kāwai matatini, e kua pā ana ki te natura taata, te huru, te mau huru ora, he uaua ki te mahi hei tohunga, me te kaikaranga o te pono. Rawa no te mea kite i te taiva ore katoa ratou ake ara. Hoki te tangata mai lī'oa tuatahi ki te utuafare, a te ahei o te tetahi mea hoki mo te wahine ia. Hoki tetahi - pono ki a ia me ana ngā whakapono. Hoki te tuatoru - te oati ratonga (ahakoa faaipoiporaa, fakalotu kāwanatanga ranei) ... reira, ki te tango tatou i roto i te whānui, tinihanga - te reira (i roto i mua i te tikanga) tinihanga o tetahi ranei te tangata. Ko e founga ki te waiho ki te whanonga tangata multidimensional me multifactor me ngā whakapono?
Ko reira uaua e kore ki te taka ki roto ki feliliuaki. Ki te amo tatou i taua Tinihanga - tenei manakohanga ngākau nuitanga o ētahi atu ranei, engari e kore e ki te i whakaaria mai nei te taiva ore, he reira taea ki te whakatau i reira tapitapi ore? Nuinga o ngā wā e fehangahangai tatou ki enei take i roto i mau auraa utuafare. Kua fehangahangai Neke atu i te hawhe o te mau faaipoiporaa, me ngā uniana, a ka kia fehangahangai ki taua matawaenga. I roto i te hapori, e riro te reira i taua huringa - ko reira he hara. I runga i te kaupapa o ahakoa e taea ki te whakarerea noatia, ki te hiahia koe ki te amuiraa i te whati, tuhituhia mano o whārangi. Otiia nui te nuinga o te katoa e wareware i roto i te mahana o te kare. He he - Ko te faaiteraa ngā o te meka e he he i roto i te uniana mea katoa. Whakawa hoki koe. Ko te nuinga o te mau faaipoiporaa i roto i te tika taitamariki tau, e kore kua ina ano i te tokorua wā ki te ako tahi i te tahi. tupu ratou ake, ite ratou hōtaka ora, tāutanga, mana'o. A āta tīmata reira ki te riro piki mārama e, hei utu o te hari tahi, e huaki ana ratou tetahi ki tetahi hinengaro, a ētahi wā i te pae tino. I muri i te katoa, ara te meka e reira ko te hiahia ki te huna i te tahi wahi o tona oraraa - ko te tohu ohorere. Ko te tohu e kua tutaki kore hiahia katoa i roto i te uniana tenei. E te mea kahore he whakawhirinaki me te maia. Te tinihanga - Ko reira tonu te mamae, hōhā, pakaru o te whakawhirinaki. Otiia, ka rongo ahau e pā ana ki te mea huna ana "ia" ranei rite haavare "reira" - tukua, takiwhatia, kia iho - i maha whakatika te pātai ahau: kua ko te atu hawhe kia matapo e kore kia kite i kore te mea pai katoa? I muri i te katoa, e kore e taea e kitea te wahi i te tangata e rua pai kahore rōpū tuatoru, te wahi hanga ratou au maite. Tētahi atu, te taea te tino o tenei puta anake, no te reira te mea he kapiti. Nuinga o ngā wā ko reira he "rōpū tuatoru" i roto i kore ara ki te kupu: reira anake mohiotia he whakakōkī mo te tiango, e kua nei te kōpiro. Na kia a kore teka ki tatou. He he - e kore ko roto o te puru. 'I hono kehé, ko reira te patu uira whakamutunga i roto i te whatitiri. ahu iwi ki te kupu o ratou tinihanga o ētahi atu. Engari titiro ki te āhuatanga whakaaro: E whai tatou te tika ki te titau e he tangata ki te kaimahi o ratou hiahia, wawata, e anaanatae tatou? A he aha e hiahia ana tatou he piripono takoha?
Kia kahore tetahi e kore whakaae ki ahau. Ko ahau hohonu whakaaro e te tinihanga - he kino rere ke. ahu tatou ki pāhono, kia ite e no ratou. A e ko te aha te tetahi e whakaiti i enei ture tohia, e hiahia ana ki te hei a ia, stigmatized. He nui māmā ki conformism. "Ahau i rite ki te atu, otiia e kore e tana wahine e haere atu no te mea ... (tamariki, te fare ko te aroha kua ia kahore moni ranei, i runga i te anga ke, e kore ahau e pai)." Engari kia whakaaro o e pā ana ki te mea he wahine? Kia pehea te pakeke me te mea ki te mohio e te tetahi e kia faaitoitoraa me te tautoko, te whakarato i te reira (ki te i ahei o reira mea katoa) anake i raro i te pēhanga o te tikanga? e kore He aha fakamātoato, e kore e mahi i te reira i te ngakau.
Kei te whakapono te reira e te tinihanga wairua - te reira te ōrite o te sex platonic. Ko te reira i te mau mana'o ite i roto i te pā ana ki te tangata ki te nei matou e kore e whai ki te whangai ia ratou, no te mea kei te hono ratou, e kore e matou e nehenehe e, to tatou kahore tika. Kāti! I muri i te katoa, i roto i te meka e kore te raruraru kei roto i te rongo. whanau te tangata te utu, me tetahi conditionality - kaua e nui ake i te whakamātau ki te whakawhāiti i te kamupene whakahaere reira. Na reira, ahau whakaaro e huringa ahau - kore e aroha ki reira i runga i te taha. e kore te mea he mahi fakasekisualé ranei faahiahia platonic mō te tangata i te waho tenei. I roto i toku whakaaro, he nui atu mamafa hara i roto i taua - te teka me te tinihanga o te whakawhirinaki. he kino atu te katoa i, e kore ko te tapatoru katoa te meka mere o tona oraraa, me te meka i te tangata ko te roa te wa i roto i te pouri e pā ana ki te āhua pono o ngā take. Ka taea e puremu matau me e muru. Ano, Ka taea e te mea he haapiiraa mo te heke mai, e ka whakaatu he aha i ngaro i roto i te Uniana. Ko hē āta, he nui atu uaua ki te whakarerea noatia tinihanga. te aroha pono e kore aro ki te tutu me te here. A takoto reira i te paihana pakiaka.