Tips kotiro: me pehea ki te matau ki ta te taata e pai koe?

Aue, tenei mea ngaro, me te ohorere - aroha! taruke reira tatou ki te hanga i te poauau tino ranei, hei kōrero, ta'e'amanekina mahi maramarama. I raro i tona mana, hei tatou pai, mātau, braver, e mahi tatou te tahi mea e pai kia te aroaro o ara kihai i maia ki te whakaaro. Ngā wā katoa pai ina he tahi te aroha. Ko te okrylenie haurangi tonu huru pai, me te ataata i runga i tou mata, tautautefito ki he taimi kite koe i te kotahi i aroha.

Ko reira he wa ka kore koutou e mohio ki ta ite ahau e pā ana ki te tenei ranei e takitahi ite koe. Na te kotiro, mo te tauira, kua mahue miharo ki te korero, ki te pai te taata i te reira e kore ranei. Heoi, ko te tangata - he mea hanga ki te mentality kore pera mohio, na i reira he tohu ka taea e koe te ako ki te matau o ratou whakaaro. Ka rite ki te hua, e kore e tenei anake whakahaere te tangata taitama, engari ano ki te hanga aroha ia ki ahau. I roto i te tuhinga o to tatou i tenei ra ka āwhina i tatou i te sex ataahua ki te matau ko e founga ki te matau ki ta te taata e pai koutou.

1. Ko te huarahi māmā - haere a ui e pā ana ki reira nuitia. O te akoranga, ko reira hoki te tere tino, engari ko te reira nui, pai atu i te i roto i te pouri. Ko te aha tika haere ake ki rite koe te tangata, ka ui ki a ia te mea i ongo'i ia ite i koe. Ki te hiahia koe ki te kia hāngai anake i runga i tāpae kōrero me te whakaaro e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te matau ki ta te taata pai koe, e faaite tango ahau atu i te torutoru huarahi.
2. Tirohia ki tona hoa pai. He pai ano, ki te mea kua ngā koe. Na e kore e tika i tetahi raruraru. Noatia, kia tango wahi i roto i pakeke te whakawhirinaki i te tangata taitamariki tenei, engari ki te huri i te reira i roto i taua e ia tino aroha koutou, ka taea e koe te whakaoti i te mea ngaro mo te whanaketanga o tetahi mahi atu.
3. Me pēhea koe e mohio e pai te taata koe? Haere ki te Matapae waimarie maheni. Ko te tikanga, o te akoranga, e kore e whakamatauria rawa, engari kia rite ki te mea ratou, i roto i te whawhai e pai tikanga katoa, reira, ako e pā ana ki ona mau mana'o ki te tikanga katoa e wātea ana. Ki te kore koe e whakapono i roto i te poropiti ana, ka kore koutou e haere, kia tonu tikanga i roto i tenei e kore e waiho tetahi. Ko tētahi atu matamata - tirohia anake ki kua mai nga tohunga tuaahu maheni whakarerea maha Herekiu.
4. Tonu whakapono i roto i te whaiwhaia, me te makutu? Na ka aha noho nui o te moni? Mea atu whakarau i runga i to ratou ake. Ko te atu na te mea ara kia tokomaha. Kimihia hoki ratou te taea pai rawa hohoro.
5. Me pēhea koe e mohio e pai te taata koe? Tino ohie - mataara tona whanonga. Me e taea ki te tātari i te āhuatanga e koe. Tirohia te āhua o te mahi ia a tawhio noa koutou, me pehea ki te kōrero, kia rite ki te mea ratou. Pea ko te kupu whakahoki ki tou pātai tenei, tika hiahia koe ki te ako ai ki te titiro tika.
6. I roto i te mau rave'a e rave rahi i to'na mau mana'o ki a koutou whakaatu tona huru. Ki te koe, hei tauira, te mate, a ka ko ia te rawa tuatahi e karanga, me te hiahia i roto i to koutou pai-oranga, kawea koutou hua me te wai ranei noa, ka papu - e tangata tiaki koutou e pā ana ki. Pea he i muri ia ki a koutou e kore te mea pera roa, kia kore koe e hiahia ana ki te hohoro ki te whakaatu nuitia ratou aroha. Taihoa a ka tino whiwhi koe tona mana'o whanui.
7. Kotahi matamata whakamutunga i runga i te āhua o ki te matau e pai te taata koutou - whakapataritari pai koe i te hae tangata. Ki te hoatu e ia i roto i, ka timata ia ki te kitea i riri, te auraa e tiaki koe e pā ana ki a ia, a ka ia tino aroha koutou.