Aha ki te mahi ki te noho î i te here i aroha ai?

Nui, ki te whai koe i te tangata e arohaina. Ko e founga ki te pupuri i te tutu o te mau mana'o i ko te tuatahi, mo te ki tau mai?

Ko te tino e kore anake, engari ano hoki i te hoa

Whakamātauria ki te hanga i tētahi huru i roto i to koutou hononga o te whakawhirinaki oti. Hanga i te reira na e tika i taea e te aroha e ahau a tawhio noa koutou, a kihai i hiahia ia ki te puta kaha, me te kaha. Heoi, he reira te tahi mea ki te kia ngoikore. Ko te rerekētanga ko e ki te tukua koe ki a ia whakaatu i te ngoikore, ka whai atu whakawhirinaki ia koutou. Ka faaite ia ki a koutou i aku whakaaro, mahere, wehi me feaa, kahore te wehi o te whakatau he, me te whakahawea. Ki te whakaatu koe e hiahia ana koe he tangata tino tika , kahore he, e kore e haere tonu ana paruparu e hea. Noa, Ko te tupato ki te huna ia ratou e ia, te ore e horo'ai koe ki o koutou whakaaro, me mau mana'o.

Ki te whakaaro koe e te tangata e arohaina mahi he, "tae atu ki" te tahi atu. A feruri na e koutou orotika - tika tou hoa pai. Me pēhea te e te tikanga koutou i roto i te āhuatanga i taua? e kore te tikanga rawa e hiahia ana nga tangata tohutohu, rapu ratou ki te whakaoti i nga raruraru katoa i runga i to ratou ake. tautoko Just kitea. Ka taea e koe te mea te tahi mea rite: "Ae, o te akoranga, e kore i koe rawa tika, engari te mea e mahi kore e ngaro Na, kia tīmata a i te meka e whai tatou i teie nei i roto i tetahi take, au e ahau i runga i tou taha Kaua e manukanuka, e tatou .... mahi ki tenei āhuatanga. kei kaha / whakaaro / ... te tangata. koe e pai katoa. " Ki te koe "tapahia" reka, e kore e huri i te reira i tetahi mea. Ki te matau tetahi tangata e ko ia he, e kore e whai ia te kowhete ia mo te mahi he. Kahore he take ki te tāpiri wahie ki te ahi me te hoatu te pēhanga ki runga ki tona kiritau-whaiaro. Kia hoa. Kia matau koutou taata tino e te aroha ia, ka maiohatia ki ona mau paruparu katoa.

Kaua e waiho i te "mama"

parapara whaea whakatakotoria i roto i tatou, engari e kore e kawea ki raro tona aroha kïhei te tangata. Ko ia he pakeke me te iwi motuhake, ahakoa tonu na. Ki te riro koutou nehenehe rawa ki te tango i te tiaki o, hohoro taea e ia, kia rite ki te mea ratou, "noho i runga i te kaki, me te waewae piri,." Ranei ngenge o koutou tiaki nui, me te whakatika ake ki a koutou. e kore e kōwhiringa rua hāngai tatou. Kia whakatau takitahi tou aroha hanga me te kawenga mō te ratou mau hopearaa. Ahakoa, ki te kite koe i e ka arahi ana mahi ki te mutunga pouri, e kore e tohe. A faaite i to koutou ake whakaaro, me te waiho ia haere noa o whiriwhiri. Te kore, hei utu o te tautoko e whiwhi koe tetahi atu tamaiti. E kore te mea te tangata ahei o mana'o oraora mo te wahine e mahi ana rite te whaea.

Tahuri mana'o tonu

Tukua ki a koe te aroha! Aroha koe ka hoatu aroha, tiaki weriweri, me te ki ratou i aroha ai. Kaua e tukua koutou hononga hei te "tuakoi puhoi". Kia ka waiho koe whakangahau, runaruna mōrearea tahi. Kaua e tukua te ora "tahuri kawa"! Whakamātau!

Hoki e kore e wareware e pā ana ki katoa o "ahuareka". Hei tauira, tuhituhi ia he SMS ngawari ngākau nui ranei, ka kore e tawhio koe. Ka taea e koe te whakaaro o tetahi mea homai, taketake whaiaro ki te aroha. Waihanga koutou whakarerenga iho whaiaro - hei tauira, i roto i te ata ki te inu kawhe me te kōrero e pā ana ki tetahi mea. hanga e koe tou ora koe! Mahi i runga i taua mea.