He aha ngā pātai taea te ui, ka te whakaminenga me te hui tuatahi

He whanaunga me hoa, hoa, me i mohio ia tangata - he maha nui o te iwi ki nei koe ki te kōrero tonu. Otiia ētahi wā iwi tenei te mea he iti, me te hiahia noa koe ki te tīmata i tētahi hononga hou. Otiia i roto i tenei āhuatanga, me tohutohu whai hua e korero ki a koutou te mea e mau uiraa e taea e koe te ui, ka te whakaminenga me te hui tuatahi, kia rite kore ki te whakawehi atu he hoa pea.

Mō te ture

Ture o te Whanaungatanga mō ngā kōtiro me mau tamaroa e pā ana ki te taua. Aha ki te mahi: ki te kia fakamātoato, tangata tuwhera, tino noa - ia. Aha ki te mahi i kore te tūtohu: ki te tamata ki kia taketake rawa - titiro reira anuanu; takoto, no te mea e taea te whakakitea he teka hohoro. Ko reira utu te haamana'oraa e ka i roto i tetahi mohio whakahaere ranei pātai. Here kia hoki te mea tupato e kore ki te overreact. Ehara i te mea e tika ana ki te whakarite i te uiui, kia kia arorau, me te kore e whakapehapeha nga pātai. I roto i te whānui, poto - ko te katoa e hiahia ana koe ki te mahara ki tenei.

tūtohutanga kōtiro

Mai te nuinga o nga tīmata o teití ko nga takatu, e kore e hiahia ana ki te mohio me pehea ki te whakaturia te pātai rawa tuatahi, kia e kukume te aro o te takoto te ritenga nga kotiro. Otiia i konei te te aha pātai ka taea e koe ui i te taata ki te whakahaere anō - kia tangohia ki pūkete. Na, he aha e ahau e inoi? Nuinga o ngā wā e hiahia i roto i tōtu'a tangata taitamariki, me te he wahi o te ako te mahi ranei kotiro. I muri rongo i te whakautu ki ēnei pātai, te atu taea e koe te whakamārama hoki tatou, tae noa ki te huru rauemi o nga tangata. Kahore he take ki te ui hāngai, ngā pātai ki uga e pā ana ki te imiraa tona interlocutor, taea mōhio ai ia, ka ngakau rua ia te viivii ore o te whakaaro o te kotiro. Ki te te rongo te turanga o te ora nei ki te, ka taea e koe ui tangata tamarikitanga, ana matua, me te te aroaro o te tahi atu whanaunga - teina, tuahine. He he ano hoki e taea ki te tiki i te kōrero tika te roa, e ka rawa ngā mōhiohio e pā ana ki tenei tangata. Ki te he te reira tino uaua ki te kitea he kaupapa noa, ka taea e koe te tamata noa ki te matapaki i te tahi mea ore, pērā i, mo te tauira, he kiriata hou te wahi pai mo te kai pizza ki hoa, e haere ana tono pātai ranei.

Tetahi atu pātai, ka taea e koe ui te tangata i runga i te rā tuatahi? Ki te pai mōrahi kōrero iwi katoa e pā ana ki o ratou runaruna - e he taea hoki reira ki te ui i te interlocutor. A pera, e kore e tino whakaaro e pā ana ki reira, he mea e tika ana ki te whakawhiti kōrero mō a kōrero e pā ana ki te mea he ngāwari ki te ui ki, ara, ki te kia mau ai ki he iti i roto i o wahi, kia rite ki te ritenga i te hui tuatahi.

eé tūtohutanga

No iti nui ka hei tohutohu i runga i te aha e taea te ui pātai te kotiro i te wa o te teití hui tuatahi ranei. Ko konei Tino nui te pātai rawa tuatahi, i muri i kua ki te tīmata i te whakataki whaiaro te taata katoa. He aha ki te mea ki te kukume aro rite te kotiro? He maha nui o ngā kōwhiringa. Ka taea e koe te ui noa te wahi i ia, mo te tauira, e tata ana te wharekai wharekai ranei. Ranei whakapūtā he pātai rerekē rā, me te ngali innocuous. I tua atu, kia ngana ki te whakawhanake i te whakaaro mā te inoi ki tetahi mea rite "Ko reira koe ki rite?" ( "He te whakamarie?", "Koe whakaaro pehea e reira ko te kīhini?"), Ka pera i runga i. D. Ki te kore ko te kotiro ki te whakahaere me te pai ki te whakahoki kupu, na he reira tino tuwhera mō te mohio hou, hī tokotoko taunga! Ahakoa he aha ngā pātai taea te ui te kotiro i te wa o te aroha, kia kia mea ratou riirii? Hei tauira: "He aha te wa", "Pehea te maha o te mahi i te pahi WX?" A pera ki d.Chto mahi ka ratou tuatahi tutaki.? Tino noa, he rārangi o ngā pātai e pā ana ki te taua rite ina whakaminenga ki te takatu (whakaahuatia ana i runga). Feruri i roto i te mea pātai ka taea e koe ui i te mau tamahine, e taea kotahi taata ite māia ake a kore wehi o mohio hou.