I te ara ki te mahi angitu: me pehea ki te ako ki te tango i te tūpono

whakapono kau taki Top o te rohe pakihi e te mōrea - ko reira he āhuatanga tino nui o te angitu i roto i te ao hou. Otiia ki te kahore e rite koe ki te tango i te tūpono, me pehea koe e ite atu whakamarie ina peke koe ki te unknown?

Angitu i roto i te mahi

he tau torutoru ka mau takai Niambi Brown ki 2013 ki te tiki i roto o to koutou rohe whakamarie, me te waiho i te hāneanea, ka marino te tuku ia rōia rangatōpū. hiahia ia ki te whakatuwhera i tona ake mahi i runga i te mākete pakeke, e kua i Kiki ki te whakataetae. Na roto i te 2015, whakarewahia reira he kaupapa fermata Entertainment, he kamupene mahi i roto i te whakahaere o nga kaihanga me ngā. Tona kamupene record Big Mouth Records etahi wa i muri mai ka puta. "I taea e ahau te haere ki te kamupene record ngā ka mahi ki reira te kaiwhakahaere matua, i ahau maha ngā whai wāhitanga ki te mahi tika e - whakaurua Brown. - Ko reira ko he raruraru motuhake hiahia ahau ki te whakaoti, a ka ua e whai ahau i te whakatau tika. Ua ite e ahau he hiahia ki te tamata me te kite, ki te taea te hanga e ahau te tahi mea ake, me te kia angitu. " I roto i 2017, i te kamupene record Brown riro tona taonga tuatahi "Grammy" ka tukua he waiata i e kua rongo ki tekau o milioni o te mau tau. Tona kōrero taea mahi rite faaururaa mo te hunga e hiahia ana ki te hanga i taua he tupeke i te ora ohie, me te haumaru i roto i te pouri.

Risk - Ko te ara anake whakamua tenei

I roto i te ao whai e te ki muri i te mahi ora - he mea he te utopia, ara mahi tuku iho, rite taua, e ngaro i roto i nga whenua tino whakawhanakehia. 'Oku' uhinga tenei e inaianei hiahia matou ki te tango i te whai wāhi ki te katoa ki te tiki ake? Bill Oleta, he pükenga matua i te Institute o Technology Massachusetts, whakapono na. whakapono ia e te mea tino meá taea e koe i roto i te wa o taua tapepe - ko ki te mahi i nga mea katoa i te ara i meatia tonu reira. kitea ana tēnei huarahi e i roto i te ara te nuinga o te iwi e titiro i te iwi e te hunga i mōrea. Ko te hunga e tino meá ki te tango i te tupeke ki te unknown, maha whakanuia. I roto i te mutunga, e kore ko te huarahi haumaru te kaupapa o te hītori ātahu. Kia koropiko kaipakihi tenei ra te ao Erono Musk, ki te kahore i timata nei ia i roto i te tau 2008, a meatia kihai o ratou kamupene tata ki te kaihau, kamupene multibillion SpaceX me Tesla? Na reira kahore he mea maere i roto i te meka e te mōrea o hoko he au ao o to tatou wa. Startups Culture, piri ki te pepeha "Ki te whakangungu rakau ki runga ki taua mea ranei", kua hanga he mentality e puaki e anake te hunga e e pai ki te tango i te tūpono tino, e taea kokoti hua nui o ratou mahi. Na te tetahi e kore e aituä, kei runga i ona Facebook kaiwhakarewa ara mea "kore whai" ko Mark Zuckerberg. Ko te aha e te reira ki te waiho i te tangata meá? A me pehea tatou e nehenehe e riro kotahi?

He aha e hiahia ana koe ki te tango i te tūpono?

Ko te kaha te tangata ki te tango i te tūpono me te e kore ite i te hūhi o papû ore hanga āhuatanga hinengaro, mahi whaiaroaro o te tinana, te ahurea, i tupu te tangata ngā, me te te whānui o te whanonga meá whakatamarikitanga i te hapori. Hei tauira, kua whakaaturia ngā taua taumata o te takitahi o testosterone i roto i te toto e taea tika whakatau hiahia o te tangata ki te tango i te tūpono. Mai tangata he tino maha he taumata teitei o testosterone i roto i te toto, he nui atu pea ki te mahi rūhia, i waho i nga kōrero katoa, i te wahine ratou, engari i roto i te whakatau i nga tangata me te wahine, te hunga e e pai ki te tango i te tūpono. "A, no te e faaineine koutou mo te whawhai nui ranei taruke koutou, a ka whakatikaia te mōrea, te taumata o te testosterone i roto i nga piki toto, a ka riro ia koutou māia ake i roto i a ratou ano, - ka mea a Dr. Tara Swart, he neuroscientist me te kaiako whakahihiko. - I te tahi atu te ringa, ka rahua koutou meá, te taumata o te testosterone i roto i to koutou toto heke. Tō roro mooni ka aukati i koutou nganatanga katoa ki te tango ano te tupono, whiua koutou nga mau haamana'oraa o to koutou kore. "

Me pēhea te ki te riro i te meá atu?

Hoki aua iwi e kore e meá i te natura e, i reira e maha ngā tikanga ki te ite maitai atu ki te putanga unknown. Me koe ki te whakawhāiti i te taumata hinengaro o te tauhohenga, e kia pokanoa ki a koutou nganatanga ki te tango i te tūpono. Dr. Swart, mo te tauira, taunaki te tikanga i huaina "Making te roro ki te tutakina ake."