Kihai taku tahu i hiahia tamariki: whakapati tika!

kia kua mai Ahakoa nga careerists tino whakaaro i runga i te tau mahara e pā ana ki te mea e hiahia ana ia ki te waiho i muri i te wahi, ki te aroha ki te tangata, me te tiaki e pā ana ki te tangata ki te. I roto i te kupu - te ite e te reira te wā ki te whai i te tamaiti. Heoi, he pea Papa kia kore e rite noa e taea hoki te ala hokó taua. Aha tatou e nehenehe e rave i te i roto i tenei āhuatanga te paari? He aha te ki te kore te tane i hiahia ngā tamariki?

wehi o te kawenga

I roto i te take he aha e kore e te tane e hiahia ana tamariki, ko te pea tino tenei. Tata whakatupato taiohi katoa i te teitei o te moni i roto i te sex ritenga ki mahi hikaka, ūkuia te meka e te tamaiti - he fatongia rawa nui. Kōrero o whanaunga me hoa rite, "Nana, Zinka i toru o whanau tomokanga, te tane e taea kore te whānau whangaia. E tatou ki te ui toku matua, a ratou, rawa, he pakeke ... "tāpiri wahie anake ki te ahi. kahore ki te whakaaro ki te whakaara i te tamaiti e taea whai te tangata, engari te wehi e te banal kore he rite hoki taua fatongia.

Aha ki te mahi i

kaimātai hinengaro Family e tohutohu i roto i tenei āhuatanga ki te tiki i te kuri ranei te tahi atu kararehe. haapii te tangata ki te tiaki e pā ana ki te tangata e te mea ngoikore, ka kite hoki. E taea korero koe ia e pā ana ki tona tamarikitanga, e pā ana ki te āhua o kotahi tango koe tiaki o to koutou papa. Ko taea ki te haere ki te hoa ranei hoa e kē i te tamaiti. Te kitenga rite makona Pope tona hoa, e kore te mea he tangata e taea ite e na wehiwehi.

Papû ore e pā ana ki te mau mana'o no te wahine

Here, Ko atu uaua katoa, me te tei runga i te āhuatanga. He mea nui ki te matau, e kore te tane i hinaaro tamariki no te mea he kore tino o te mau mana'o ki a koutou, ranei atu ratou.

Aha ki te mahi i

I roto i te take tuatahi ka tino pea kua ngaro te wa e tika koe, ka titiro ake aroha mo te wa roa "mahue." Ki te koe tata mali, e kore matou e rere mea - pea tino hiahia te tangata ki te kia tino e koe - he tangata pono e tika nei ki te whakaako i ana tamariki. Otiia e kore e te mea e tika ana ki te pupuri i te tane ki te awhina o te tamaiti. Tuatahi, pai ki te whakaoti pakanga i roto i te utuafare noa ranei ki te waiho, me te titiro hoki te whanaungatanga hou - me te koati ki te tupu i roto i te utuafare kaha, me te aroha.

Kaua e rere

E kore e pera nui, me pehea tawhito ko to koutou hoa, e psychologically rite mo te putanga o te mema hou o te whānau etahi rite wawe rite 20 tau, me etahi 40 āhua rite te bit wawe ... Ko te raruraru e takoto i roto i te meka e maha kite tangata te faaipoiporaa e kore rite te taahiraa ki te pakeketanga , he wāhanga hou katoa o ia, engari kia rite ki te mōrearea i muri whakaongaonga.

Aha ki te mahi i

Utua ratou mihi ki tana tahu, me te wa i muri whakatau ia ki te whakawhānui i te wā o te wā ( "Haere mai ki runga, pea i roto i te rua ranei tau?"), Whakaae koe ki reira, engari kia tonu ite e ki tatari tetahi roa, e kore koe e mea ana ki te. Whakapono ia, ka whakaatu ki a koe e te kupu wahine mo koutou - te ture. A, no te kore i hiahia toku tahu tamariki mo tenei take, he mea nui ki te tuku ite ia te akiaki o tenei taahiraa. Otiia i roto i tetahi take, e kore e tukinotia ngā tīwhiri ia e pā ana ki te tau, me te e he reira wa ki te noho ki raro - ka pana reira i te reira noa atu.

tuatahi me mau hoki i runga i ona waewae koe

Ko taea hoki e kore e te tane e hiahia ana tamariki, whakapono e he reira mahi wehe ki utu moni nui hou i ia he taea ki te wahia.

Aha ki te mahi i

Tuatahi, whakaaro e pā ana ki te mea e kore te rawa nui e hiahia ana koe ki a ia. Pea, no te kore e noho koutou tono tauine rangi i runga i tetahi mea mo te moni atu i reira i te katoa. Hanga mārama reira e me te tamaiti te mea tuatahi aroha me te tiaki mo ratou matua, kaua ki te rēreti i Gucci kaihīkoi konukawata ranei.

Te faaipoiporaa o te haratau

Ki te te kore ārahi te faaipoiporaa o te tangata i te mana'o marama, he pūkete pēke, nga matua o te wahine marena hou ia ranei, ki te whakaaro i te tamaiti, he pea ki te ariu apathetically ia ( "E hiahia ana koe ki te - haere mai i runga i, e kore koe e hiahia - e kore").

Aha ki te mahi i

Ki te he tino hiahia koe i te tamaiti i taua tangata koutou, kahore mau fifi hoki koutou ki te waihanga e kore e reira. Heoi, kia rite ki te meka e nga manukanuka katoa me ngā kawenga tino takoto i runga i koutou pokohiwi he pakarukaru.

hauora Raru

Anake te take he aha e kore e te tane e hiahia ana te tamaiti, e taea te huaina nui.

Aha ki te mahi i

Kia matau ki a ia e tino hiahia ana koe i te tamaiti, engari anake e ia, me te mea ke atu. Karangatia te tangata he whakahaere haavare, kia korero e pā ana ki to ratou mau fifi. Korerotia mai ki a matou o tauira te tokorua (taea te paku hanga e) ka pai ora o pākoko koutou hoa, me te whānau. Kia mahara ki e ka hoatu neke atu i te 90% o te mahi o te tohunga mātau te hua e hiahiatia ana, te mea matua - ki te kitea e te tākuta pai!