Kōrero i waenganui i hoa e rua: ko te ture o te kōrero angitu

He pakeke, me te motuhake, atamai, me te mahi matou. Heoi, tonu e hiahia ana tatou ki te fakaeloto kōrero kaha ki o ratou ake ahua. Kōrero i waenganui i hoa e rua - he pai ia e tika ana. Hoa te āwhina ki a tatou ite i roto i te hapori, me te tika. Ahakoa he faufaa hoki hauora hinengaro i te pāhekoheko te tikanga pāpaku. He aha kia he kōrero o hoa, ki te iwi kia hari?

Tuatahi, kia whakamarie mo e rua i roto i te taumata kōrero o mahi. I ngā wā e whakaaro ai e he reira e tika ana ki te mea hoa e rua taufetongi hoatu korero ki tahi i te tahi. I roto i te meka, ongo'i fiemālie maha iwi nui, ka korero tetahi, te tahi atu mau pahonoraa monosyllabic. e kore te mea he kōrero taua hapa - pea te atu hoa atu ngenge i te wa o te kōrero, me te, i roto i te parau tumu, iti whakahoahoa, engari he nui ki a ia tonu kōrero. Na he kōrero pēnei i waenganui i hoa e rua he manakohia, me te noa. Pea tenei rua o hoa e ara, me hanga pea ka matapaki i ētahi atu kaupapa kaha atu hoa tuarua. whiwhi maha iwi pai tūturu i kōrero i runga i ngā kaupapa tino, ahakoa ratou ratou, i roto i te parau tumu, mahi ki kino.

Tuarua, kia faatura i te hoa kōrero tahi e te tahi. More ïa, e faatura i te rohe o te tuakiri me te whai i etahi mărû e. I te tahi taime te mea te reira e te hoa o tata te take, me te pokanoa i nga take o ia atu. Otiia e kore e tenei pahua whanaunga rite te pai? Ko te meka ko e i te tahi mau iwi ira auhoaraa "tirohia te kaha ia atu o," a ka whakaturia rohe manakohia i roto i te hononga. E mea pinepine e rerekē i te tikanga te tikanga whakaaetia me te manene tangata kia mea faatura ore hoki enei rohe. I roto i te meka, ki etahi tākaro ki te rohe o te tikanga whakaatu i te pātata ki te tangata.

Te toru, kia hinengaro whai kiko, me te ngā i te kōrero i waenganui i hoa e rua. Tikanga, tetahi o nga hoa ake mōhio, a kia taea ki te whakautu tika ki te kōrero tukuna te tuarua. Ka rite ki te tikanga, tamata hoa ki te whakaatu i ngā mōhiohio i roto i te puka tino wātea, na he nui te whakarongo ki te mōhio e he reira mārama e kore e mārama ranei, ki te matau pea donosimuyu whakaaro. Ehara i te mea tonu e tika ana mo te kōrero auaha nui angitu. E mea pinepine hoa rite ki te mahara ki te wheako i ora ranei kīanga tukurua angitu ki tahi i te tahi. Kua kitea ngā kaimātai hinengaro e whiriwhiri tatou i te hoa pai o te hunga ki nei to tatou āhua i te taumata i taua i roto i te titauraa minamina ana. Ki te kore te mea nui auaha, ka mohio ia ko rite hōhā, ki te maha rawa nga mea hou - te mea te reira e ko ia "kaipuke" mōhiohio taikaha koe.

A maha, te kōrero i waenganui i hoa e rua kia hāngai ki te hiahia aronganui o hoa e rua. He hiahia aronganui o te iwi rerekē maha rawa rerekē, rite ki te tikanga, i roto i te rua tahi o hoa whakapumautia kotahi anake hoa whakarato iho he rota o te kare. Ko te tikanga te tuarua kiritaki. E ti'a ia tatou ki tu'unga kehekehe i roto i te kare, me te kare o rerekē kounga. Hei tauira, Kei te maha titiro i te kuia i te tomokanga mo te povozmuschatsya kupu me ona hoa e hiahiatia ana ia ki roto i te kōrero i rite te nui o tenei mana'o e taea e. Ranei he taiohi rapu mo te whai wāhi ki te whakapuaki i toku faahiahia mo te waiata - ka tomo te karapu tahi o te tetahi rōpū.

A pae, kia whai hua te kōrero. ahu ana tēnei wāhi ki te kōrero, engari tonu te iti rerekē. E mea pinepine to tatou iwi tino ngā nei, i roto i te mahi, i te mea e matou moe anake whakaaro o ranei. Na kōrero ki taua iwi riro te iti kotahi-iu, engari rawa ngā. Ko te mea matua - ki te ngana ki te hoatu i te tahi atu tetahi rōpū atu haunga te tikanga o te hiranga e ko reira hiahia i roto i te heke mai ki te kōrero ki a tatou.

"Kia kōrero a, toku hoa" - a ite ratou e tika ana, tauturu ia vetahi ite pai. I muri i te katoa, kōrero tatou kahore he nui pera te tahi mau taime, ahakoa e kore e whiwhi i te reira fifi rawa. haere mai Just ki te atu, me te korero ki ahau, he aha e hiahia ana koe i te reira - tatou maha noa pono whakamā ki te ui ki tetahi ki tetahi e pā ana ki te kōrero. Hinga i te arai - a ka ite koe pai i roto i te hapori.