Korero matatapu - reira ... Āhuatanga whakahaere whakahaere matatapu

I roto i te tikanga ki te arotake i tika te taea o te mahi pērā i korero matatapu, me ako tuatahi koe e founga ki te tika, me te ngaio ki te aromatawai i te matatau o te tangata i roto i te faanahoraa ki taua. Hoki tenei e hiahia ana matou ki te mohio i te āhuatanga o ngā rautaki hinengaro ki te whakaiti i pakanga, ki te whakatika i te reira, a ka kitea e nga kupu tika. To tatou kaupapa matua o te tuhinga: whakahaere muna - he aha te mea te reira?

kōrero

I roto i te hinengaro tuhituhi ariā rerekē o te kōrero, me tona tūranga i roto i te taua mea rite te kōrero muna. Tenei Ko tetahi o nga hiahia tangata taketake, hononga tangata ki te ao. e kore te mea he rārangi tino o tenei whakamārama ariā tenei. I roto i te ora, i te iwi i te hiahia ki te whakapā atu tetahi ki tetahi, hei utu o ngā mōhiohio, māramatanga o ētahi atu, hanga rautaki kōrero, ka kite i tenei hiahia te rite te wa ki te kōrero. He rerekē ngā momo o te kōrero. posredovannoe reira, tika, ōpaki, dialogic, rōpū, me te Masov. Posredovannaya whakahaere e wahi i runga i te waea, i roto i pukapuka. kōrero Direct - mata ki mata. Ōpaki - tika whakawhirinaki whakahaere ko te kōrero hoa.

tikanga korero

I roto i te tahitanga te wehe kōrero, me te kore-waha tikanga o te kōrero. Ko te whakamutunga tino nui ka hanga i te tauira - ranei whakawhirinaki kōrero matatapu, a whakatau ratou te angitu o te whakahaere matatapu. I muri i te katoa, i reira te mea he kupu - ta te reo kotahi te mea me nga kanohi - e rua. Na reira, i roto i te aparauraa matatapu ki te tangata mātanga ko te tino nui e te reo tinana, mahi tonu kīanga kanohi i roto i te paihere e korero te reo. Koia matou e taea kore, ki te hiahia koe ki te whakaora i tika i te tukanga taua, pera i te whakahaere o te whakahaere matatapu, mea kotahi te mea me ngā tohu rawea atu. He ko he pūtaiao e tuatapapa i te reo tinana - proxemics. Communication whakatau te tawhiti i ai whakamarie kawe i runga i te whakahaere. He he he tawhiti piri roa (0-50 cm) - ko reira kōrero tika o hoa tata, wairua whanaunga. Na konei te whakahaere, tae atu i te whakawhirinaki i waenga i noho iwi maheni i te tawhiti o 50-120 cm, te tawhiti whaiaro pera-ka karanga. I te pae hopea, tawhiti pāpori, me te iwi whānui i nei kōrero e wahi i roto i te reo me tawhiti roa. A, no te te whakahaere, ko te kōrero matatapu he nui taipitopito katoa. Nui ki te whakahua i te kōrero tawhiti. Hei tauira, he tepu i roto i te whakahaere te tikanga e pā ana ki te kaha - ko te āheinga koe, Ko ahau te ariki. Na reira, ko te mea nui ki te kōrero muna te kore i te tepu, ka whakaturia tūru i 90 nekehanga ki tahi i te tahi. E te hoa ki te whakawhirinaki.

tū

A, no te kia tuwhera kōrero matatapu tūranga, te tinana me te upoko tahuri ki te interlocutor, whakakitea nikau, e whakaatu ana hoki i te maia o to koutou korero ki a. Waewae kore whiti, nga uaua e ngāwari, titiro tonu i roto i te mata - i he angamaheni i roto i kōrero matatapu te tūranga taua. No te mea i roto i te take te ritenga, ka tohu tou tūranga tinihanga.

ngā tohu

whakaahua tatou i etahi o nga tohu e te hunga i roto i te aparauraa whakaatu e tino whakaaro iwi:

• koti unbuttoned - koronga pai;
• ringa huna ki muri i tona hoki - he tikanga o te hara;
• whiti i runga i tona uma - tiaki;
• ringa māhorahora - rangimarie o te ngakau;
• noho te tangata i runga i te mata o te heamana - he moni i roto i te whakahaere;
• kauwae pochosyvaet - whakaaro te whakatau;
• āta mahi mea rerekē - feruri pehea ki te whakahoki;
• hipokina ringa tona mangai i roto i tona kupu - tinihanga;
• rangatira o te wahi i reira te whakahaere e wahi, tīmata ki te kohikohi pepa ranei te tahi mea atu - ko te rangatira o te whakahaere;
• ka tahuri te tinana ki te tatau - ko te hiahia ki te waiho.

Here te tahi tohu, e taea e kitea e koe i roto i te mea kei te kupukupu tonu i te tahi atu tangata.

reo

kia fakamamafa'i iwi mita kotahi ira i roto i te whakahaere, ki te whakapuaki i mana'o, me kare. Ko reira whakahi, hākiki, korokē, māia. I roto i te kōrero matatapu me te mita me kia whakawhirinaki, marino, e kore e kaikiri. Ko te kaikorero ka whakawhirinaki tonu te reo o te reo ake, e kore te mea e mea koutou. Ki te reira te mea he rerekētanga i waenganui i enei ariā, ka i reira he he kupuroto huna, ara whakawhirinaki whakahaere - tenei tahitanga, i roto i nei e taea tetahi mea e huna.

Kaupapa whakapā

I te timatanga o te whakahaere matatapu he nui ki te whakatū i ngā hoapā ki ia atu. A mo te taua whakapā he nui ki te hanga i te ongo tuatahi pai. Clothing, oro o te reo, ngā tohu, kīanga kanohi, etc. - nui katoa hoki he pānga pai i roto i te haamauraa i te whakapā matatapu hoa ki te tangata. E toru tikanga o whakapā ki te tangata. Tenei pono, whakaaetanga interlocutor kahore tetahi "pau", aumauiui - tautuhinga i poipoi ia ia ona wheako.

kōrero matatapu

A, no te kore te iwi kōrero matatapu e mea tika te kupu, ka taunekeneke ki a rātou anō, te ako tahi i te tahi, haere mai ki te whakapā, tiakina ratou ngākau nuitanga, e ngana ana ki te whakawhirinaki me te whakawhirinaki i runga i whakawhirinaki. He he he tikanga o te tupato. te runga ake katoa he nunu'a e tika ana. Na reira, ki te whakatū i te whakawhirinaki tika ki te whakaaro ki ta mea koutou, me pehea ki te faaite kare, he aha te whakamahi ngā tohu. He mea tika ki te whakamahi i roto i te whakahaere i te parau tumu o te hanga i te tikanga hinengaro pai mo te whakatū o te mahana, whanaunga haavare ore, a kōrero i roto i ngā. Tikanga te wheako e tika ana ta e ki te hiahia koe ki te whai i te korero matatapu tahuri atu, he mea nui ki te whakaaro o koutou ahua. e kore e waiho te reira pukuriri. I tua atu, he mea nui, ki te hiahia koe ki te tīmata i te hononga o te whakawhirinaki, ki te whakaatu i te pono i roto i te wahi tuatahi i roto i te whakahaere, me tona pā ana ki te interlocutor. Ki te reira he tautohe, ka hiahia koe ki te ako i roto i te wa ki te kitea ngā o kawenata ki te tangata, ara, no te mea te reira e whai koe atu rerekētanga. He mea nui ki te whakaatu i te tauira i te faufaa rahi he reira ki te ako ki te whakawhirinaki i te tahi atu tangata, ara nga mea ngaro tino nui hoki koe. Na ka whakatuwhera i te pūtake, me te timata ki te whakawhirinaki koe.

hua

A, ka tae te reira i tetahi hua i roto i te whakatūnga o te whakahaere matatapu, he mea nui e kore e ki te ngaro te mea i hanga. Ko e mo'oni, tetahi ngāwari te mate whakawehi e i whakaritea na pakeke. E kore e taea e tatou tukua teka i roto i te kōrero. Mau i roto i te teka erects tonu rohe ki tōnoa i waenganui i nga kōrero e rua. Na, ki te he koe i whakahaere matatapu āta kōkiri, te reira utu reira. A i roto i tetahi take, e kore e tamata ki te whakangaro e ongo'i wiriwiri, rite whakawhirinaki. Tō te peu maitai, te peu maitai, te māramatanga o ngā mahi ki te āwhina ia koe i roto i tenei mea uaua kōrero rite muna.