Manuhiri i te marena: iho, auaha, Me hoki hari?

Couples nei te faaipoiporaa e 20-40 tau, ka miharo, kotahi i runga i te marena hou: kua puta ke maha ngā tikanga. Ki te mea koutou tamahine rua tekau-tau e ki te mea homai i te hui mahi ia o nga rau o manuhiri, e kore rere ki te hopu i tona matenga, me te mea, "Kahore!" I roto i te meka, tata kua puta ke katoa i roto i to tatou oraraa. He aha e kore whakapai ake ngā tikanga marena? Kia tamata o ki te feruri i roto i te hunga, he aha me he aha e hiahia ana koe ki te hoatu mea ki te marena hou.

wahine marena hou Soviet mohio rite: manuhiri i te mea e tika ana te homai marena, engari e kore e anake, a ētahi wā he tatini. foaki porohita i mārama he katoa: whanaunga o te tane tata (mama, papa, teina, tuahine, kuí, mehikitangá, kēkē, ētahi wā - i te ripeka). Gifts tīpakohia kounga. Homai te kaimahi whānui o tata tetahi manuhiri homai i te marena ka tahuri atu ki te kia tika. I muri i te katoa, i hokona e ia i te coupon (fakaafe anake) i roto i te huinga piha. Te whakaatu i te putiputi he uaua ki te whakaaro e te tauera pati, tupenu'ufi'ufi, bathrobes, hāte, pohewa, kakahu papanga, rihi, kia kaitaka paunga, engari no te mea i reira, ko reira. Ko nga tūemi whare tino taketake me kakahu enei a hokona he manuhiri wahine marena hou hakari, me te tane e kua riro te uru hiahiatia ki onge i runga i te whata i te taonga toa tikanga o. Ko te mau horo'araa wahine marena hou me te tane kihai te nuinga e whakawhiti.

Whakataetae i marena wa Soviet, o te akoranga, i hanga. taonga mo ratou, rawa, okioki te nuinga arearea. Hokona putiputi te tahi mea, ua ite te tahi mea. Te reira i tino kore i te raruraru nui, no te mea utu enei Souvenir katoa he pene. Na tino nui - e kore tetahi e taau mo te homai nui, ko reira nui ki te taupua noa mētara pepa pōkairua ranei "Ko te manuhiri tino kaha."

Huri i te reira i roto i taua ki te whakarerenga iho hoatu manuhiri i te marena i reira me i to tatou tupuna, engari ko te hui he tikanga tapu. Ka rite ki te tikanga, i te aroaro o te wahine marena hou mea whatu, e pā ana, he mea whakairo e te ringa. ka papa o te tane te whitiki, tona whaea - he wahine marena hou whakapaipai paraikete - hāte whakairo, whanaunga - tupenu'ufi'ufi, tauera, kope. Wahine marena hou faaite te kupu ratou kaha, tarani, ka ki tonu mau horo'araa i ki te pūngao motuhake. hoki i te tane ki te whakaatu i to ratou utu rauemi, no te mea e ngana ana ki te hoko i tona koti whaea-taonga, whakamātautau - pütu hou, te wahine marena hou - whakapaipai me kakahu rerehua.

I roto i nga tau tata nei, i reira ko he iho ki te hoatu nga āheinga i te pouaka monamona manatunga iti marena. Ko te pakiaka o te iho ki te kia kitea i roto i te wharekarakia France. «Bonbon» - «monamona" i roto i te French, me bonbonnière - «monamona." Ko te kupu, ko te monamona-pouaka - he pouaka ataahua o tiakareti. I whakanui ngā i roto i France, i hoatu manuhiri sweets ki te whakawhetai ratou mo to ratou aroaro i te marena, te bapetizoraa tahitanga ranei. ora iho humarie nga rau tau, ka heke ki ētahi atu whenua Pākehā, a i roto i nga tau tata nei i roto i Russia me te whenua Kihi.

I roto i France, hoatu monamona te tikanga aramona ngingilá, engari i tenei ra e taea e te mea he candies tiakarete iti i roto i te takai konumohe hua candied ranei. pouaka Candy titiro rite takai, peke, pūhera, pouaka. Ka taea e ratou te whakarite i ratou ringa ake, me te tiki ake i te āhua o to koutou kaupapa marena. E te ara, kia kia 5 pire rite ki iho i roto i te monamona: tohu o fertility, te oaoa, te pai, te hauora me te pikinga. I teie mahana, i tenei moni e kore e te nuinga o te faaturahia, e ai ta te rongo rongonui anake e kia rerekē te nui o sweets.

Ano, ka kaha māmā, me i hau niho reka French. I teie mahana, Kei te whakaaro ake me atu faaipoipo e pā ana ki taonga e ka waiho i te mahara o te whakamanamana o te wa roa. Hei tauira, te aukume i runga i te pouaka ki te rā marena me whakaahua putiputi nehenehe e tauturu manuhiri mahara koutou ra marena, a taea noa koe tatau i runga i te mau horo'araa marena rakau (i te rima o tau o te ora tahi).

haere ake ētahi faaipoipo ki atu whakaaro taketake mō ngā taonga i te manuhiri: e taea e ratou maramataka, mōhiti me te nūpepa hoahoa motuhake, trinkets, te ipu, oko iti o te tāmi ... manuhiri Present i te marena e taea e ngahau. I roto i tenei take e korero tatou e pā ana ki taonga takitahi, e tino fakafaingata'a'ia'i te oraraa kua uaua o putiputi heke mai.

arotakehia matou nga kōwhiringa matua mō ngā mau horo'araa mo te marena; otiia kihai ia i whakahoki kupu ki te pātai:? "He aha kia meatia i runga i ngā ritenga marena 'I roto i tenei tau o te ao, ki te korero e pā ana ki te oraraa o te pai-whakapumautia ture he uaua, i roto i te meka, he ngaro, he ritenga marena noa. O te akoranga, pouaka monamona - iho e kore e Slavic, engari mau ki runga ki, a he tokomaha te iwi, ano reira.

I teie mahana, whakatau te tokorua anake nei e hoatu taonga, a he aha te mea homai e waiho te manuhiri i te marena e tika ana. e kore koe e taea e hoatu taata. hui Bright, hakari, hōtaka whakaatu - te homai matua mo te hunga mātakitaki. Ka taea e koe te hoatu mea ki te kati whanaunga, pera i ta o koutou whaea me kuia. A ka taea e koe te whakarite i te taonga French-kāhua mō ngā kaiuru katoa o te hui (ranei nga 1 ia te utuafare). Ko te whakatau, ko te ake ki te wahine marena hou me te tane. Whakapono ahau, kahore he ture mārama-tapahia. E ai ki ngā kitenga ārahi marena, hakari tenei ra e pā ana ki te toru o haere kahore e homai ana manuhiri, engari e kore e tenei hararei hei tetahi iti takatāpui ranei iti hari.

Heoi, ki te tukua pūtea, he aha e kore meinga tenei i te tohu ahuareka - bonbonniere he mea homai - ki te whakawhetai nga manuhiri mo te mea ratou faaite ki a koutou i tenei ra. Pono ngahau, me te whiwhi koutou, me katoa te hunga reira. Ka taea e te bonbonniere hoatu te kāri o te whakawhetai. Mahalo, e kore e tatou wareware ahakoa e kore koutou e whiwhi mau horo'araa no te marena koura, me nga mea e matenuitia ana e kore e waiho utu rawa. E hoatu taonga i te mutunga o te whakanui i roto i te hui o te takoha rite te whakautu "whakawhetai koe" ranei.

I roto i tetahi take, e kore e wareware ki te whakawhetai nga manuhiri waha.