e hiahia ana koe ki te mohio me pehea ki te kukume i te aro o te mau tamahine? Ko reira utu whakaaro e pā ana ki te āhua o te titiro koe, ka pehea ki te tikanga, no te pā ana ki te takoto ritenga. He aha e koe inaianei hiahia i roto i tenei? Ki te i mua i i a koutou raruraru i roto i te pā ana ki nga wahine, na inaianei ko te wa ki te whakatika i a ratou.
He mea tino nui te mana'o tuatahi e hanga e koe i runga i te iwi a tawhio noa ratou. Tuatahi, Me koe ki te kitea te ara ki te pai ia ahua, me anake ka tīmata teití. Ka rite ki pārekareka ki te iwi taitamariki pai-a Matiu me kotiro tino taitamariki me kotiro ngā e te taitamariki tangata ataahua, huatau, me te sipoti. O te akoranga, e kore e te ahua tino kī koutou angitu i roto i whanaunga heke mai, engari te raruraru: "Me pēhea te ki te kukume i te aro o te mau tamahine" - whakatau rite. Na, ko te wāhi tuatahi i runga i te ara ki te angitu: ahua arero. Hurihia tō kāhua o kakahu, whakahou kakahu, pōro me te timata pārekareka koutou whakawhirinaki-whaiaro.
Na, me pehea ki te kukume i te aro o ngā kōtiro
Koe - he taata pai, huatau, me te tupato, engari mokemoke. He aha te mea te take? Te whanonga, me te huru. Ki te whakapono koe i roto ia koe, me koutou aravihi, e kore e wehi o te teití me te uatoko o, e mohio ki te kitea te kotiro o ana moe, a te wikitoria i te reira koutou. I te hui tuatahi ki te wahine taitamariki, kia ahakoa, reka, ataata. Korero huatau, e kore e mangere, ki reira, kia maia, engari e kore e cocky. nga kotiro katoa aroha ki te kia ngahau. Ki te kore ko te ariki o ngahau koutou, he pai kore tamata tona tikanga o te whakakatakata, fakangatangata ki nga kaupapa e he tino pai he pai. Taunga ki te kotiro ataahua - he kōrero rerekē i roto i te ora o te pāhekeheke tangata taitama nei whakamahia ki te wheako uatoko ki te kotiro kihai i kore. Na ki nga akoranga huri-ake rongonui te wahi whakaako rangatira mohio o te whakaipoipo tamariki pehea kōrero me te tikanga ki te takoto ritenga. Ki te kore koe e hiahia ki te haere taua akoranga, engari e hiahia ana ki te ako ki te taunekeneke ki te wahine ataahua, me te whaiaro-māia, whiriwhiri tūranga hoki ratou, e ka mahi.
Te kōrero e pā ana ki te pehea, ki te kukume i te aro o ngā kōtiro, ko reira utu te whakahua e he rerekē katoa ratou, a ka rite ratou iwi taitamariki tino ritenga. Ahakoa etahi hiahia te toa beefy, te tahi atu tangata mahara faahiahia ki te taonga o te matauranga. He he ano hoki e wātea ana he kotiro e kore e mea faufaa te, aha e ratou iwi taitamariki, ki te mea matua tiaki o ka hoatu ana etahi hakari, i rite ki te mahi tetahi mo ratou. Whakatau e te momo o te tangata e koe. pūkenga Egghead a kore titiro mo koutou mate wairua i te whare wānanga, i roto i te whare pukapuka, i roto i te whare tapere whare taonga ranei. I roto i enei wahi, ka taea e ngāwari kitea e koe i te kaupapa o te whakahaere ki te tetahi whiriwhiri, ka kite, ki te tika te reira koutou i roto i ngā o te whanaketanga. Ki te mea ko koe te tahi o hākinakina whai wāhi i roto i etahi ngaio ranei, e kore ai e koutou hoa i roto i te mataitai i te turanga. Kaua e wehi ki te tango i te kaupapa. Ka rite ki te tikanga, aroha kōtiro ki te kōrero me te whiwhi ki te mohio, ki te he noa ratou. He eé torutoru, te whakahaere i runga i ngā kaupapa whānui, ngā tau waea utu, he fakaafe ki te hui - ko te reira koutou! Na e matau ana koutou e founga ki te kukume i te aro o ngā kōtiro, a he pai ki te tamata i enei tohutohu ki mahi!