he kōrero tino hira i roto i te ao o teie mahana, kitea ki te pēhanga, me hangarau tere tiketike. A ki te whakamārama o te mea katoa e tupu, te tahi mau taime wareware matou pehea ki te whakarongo. Tenei te pehea ngā mahi i te reira e te iwi e kua ako ki te whakarongo ki ētahi atu.
Whakamahia te reo tinana
Ko a koutou waea, me te tahuri ki te kanohi i te tahi atu rōpū. Whakakore i te iti rawa te whakawhāiti i te haruru papamuri me ētahi atu mau faaoaoaraa ranei. Te reira e tauturu arotahi koutou i runga i nga kupu i te tahi atu tangata o. Kati te whakapā tika kanohi, me te tahuri te tinana me pokohiwi i roto i te ahunga o te interlocutor. he tika taua aro ki te whakaatu i whai wāhi e koe i roto i te kōrero. Ki te koe tino kore e rongo, na ka hoatu tonu koe te reo tinana. Ahakoa, ki te mahi i te taua nga atu tangata, whai koe ki te whakaturia te tauira pai.
Mātakitaki i te tohu kore-waha
e kore e te wahi anake o te kōrero kupu. A, no te paraparau koe ki te tangata kanohi-ki-mata, titiro, ki te kōrere ia tona waewae, ahakoa koutou i roto i te kanohi, ahakoa tona ataata stares kopikopiko. He rite nui rite kupu tohu kori ā. A ka waiho koe pea ake ki te kite ratou, ki te noho koutou marino me whakarongo ki a ratou.
e kore e aruaru
A, no te mea koutou e kore e taea e koe mau whakarongo. Kia koutou hoa noa faaite te mea kei runga i tona whakaaro. kia kitea e koe te reira uaua e kore ki aruaru a ia, rawa ki te he aronganui koe, ranei te tino hiahia ana ki te whakapuaki i to ratou mata o te tirohanga. Ko te iti ta ia, i ratou iti mōhiohio. Ki te hiahia koe ki te mea i te tahi mea tino nui, tatari noa te tatari kaikorero.
Kaua e hi'a ki te whakamatautauranga, ki te whakahere rongoā
Ki te mea tetahi te tahi mea e pā ana ki te raruraru, te whakamanawanui i tohutohu. Ki te hiahia te tangata ki te whakarongo ki to koutou whakaaro, e ui i te reira koutou e pā ana ki reira. Pea ia e hiahia tika ki te korero, a ka whiwhi whakaaetanga, ahakoa e kore e meatia e koutou tenei, ki te kahore koe e whakaae. I roto i tetahi take, ka taea e koe te ui ki a ia ki te hiahia ia ki te whakarongo ki o koutou whakaaro. A, no te whakahere koe kia mea i te otinga, ka whakakore koe nga raruraru o etahi, kaua ki te āwhina ia ia.
Kaua e iriti i te aparauraa ki tetahi atu kaupapa
Ahakoa, ki te tupu e ka oho te kōrero i runga i ki tetahi atu kaupapa, tēnā tonoa hoki ki te taketake reira. Whakapāha a fakamanatu te tahi atu tangata, he aha i mea ia. Ka taea e tatou te mea: "Ko ahau te tino pouri e digress tatou. Na te aha e mea koe? ".
Tangohia tuhipoka
Ki te kei koe i mahi, ka āwhina i ngā kōrero mahara koutou te mea i paraparauhia i roto i te kōrero. Ahakoa, ki te kahore koe e mataara ratou, te tuhituhi ano e tukua ki te mahara pai koe nga mea katoa.
whakaatu kaungāongo'i
Hoatu koe i roto i te wahi o te interlocutor, ki matau mea kei te tupu, me te ki kia ki a ia i te kau. Whakaaturia te nui matau koe tona mana'o. O te akoranga, e kore e tenei tikanga e whai koe ki te whakaae ki te katoa ta ia. kia malimali koe ta'iri'iri ki whakaatu i taua whakarongo, e kore tango ringa o te tangata ranei.
noho tuwhera
Kaua e hanga whakapae whakatau ranei e ai ta te pūtake. Ka taea e tēnei rītaha meinga ki a koutou te mahue te tahi mea nui.
A feruri i mua i a koutou korero
I muri mutu te tahi atu tangata e korero ana, whakaaro i te hēkona ruarua i mua i te tīmata ki te korero. Tenei ka hoatu matau i te tahi atu tangata e whakaaro koutou e pā ana ki te mea i tika mea ia. A ka mohio ia e kore e ngana ana koe ki te korero, no te te whakahaere i runga i. A feruri ranei kia whakaherea koe he ara i roto i, he pai noa ki te ui pātai whai-ake ranei.