E kore e te taiohi e hiahia ana ki te ako. He aha ki te mahi? Tips mō ngā mātua

Tino maha i roto i te mau utuafare whatiia atu pakanga o ngā ngākau nuitanga o ngā mātua, me ngā tamariki, tautautefito ki he taimi whiti te muri te arai tau o 12 tau. Ka rite ki te tikanga, ako te kaupapa riro he tutukitanga waewae i roto i te māramatanga i waenga i te taiohi, me tona papa, me te whaea. A timata ratou ki heruraa i rapu mo te whakahoki ki te pātai: "E kore e to tatou tama, (te tamahine ranei) taiohi e hiahia ana ki te ako. He aha ki te mahi me te pehea, ki te hei? "

Ratou tauhohenga ki te whanonga o ngā tamariki o te akoranga e ratou i roto i te āhua o ratou ake paruparu me te horihori tino i roto i ngā take o te mātauranga. Na, ki te kore te taiohi e hiahia ana ki te ako te mea ki te mahi i roto i tenei take, ratou i kore mohio, a na reira, i kore te whakatau i te tamaiti tūmanako. Ko tohu atu i hanga hape nui i roto i te mātauranga tenei.

Tūmanako o ngā mātua e taea matau, no te mea na nui kaha me te pūngao ki te whakarite kia puritia ratou tamaiti i roto i te ora i hoatu e ratou. e hiahia ana ratou ki a ia hoki noa taketake ki he ma, me te whakamarie tonu tona ruma, a āwhina ia i roto i te whare riko, na te mutunga koa ia i roto i o ratou kōeke pai i roto i te kura. E mea pinepine, Heoi, i reira he he pānga whakamuri, ka ohorere tonu ngā mātua, taea ki te kitea he whakahoki ki te pātai: "? E kore e te taiohi e hiahia ana ki te ako - he aha ki te mahi i"

O te akoranga, te mea tuatahi e haere mai ana ki te ngakau, ko te ki te whakamahi i te parau tumu o te pai-mohiotia "e kore e hiahia ana - ki te hanga". He mea tino nui ki te kia tupato e kore ki te overdo te reira ki tenei tikanga. Mā te whakamahi i te pūrere ako i runga ake-whakahuatia, e hiahia ana koe ki te whakamahi i kāreti, me nga patu. Hoki te angitu - ki te whakatenatena, me mo nga kohakore - ki te whiua. I muri i te tahi mau wa, hoko atu pakeke, te tamaiti anake e whakatau he aha te tikanga ki te whiriwhiri i te reira, a ko reira taea e ka waiho koutou mauruuru mo te meka e kore hema ana hiahia me caprices.

Whakaaro i te pātai: "E kore e te taiohi e hiahia ana ki te ako - he aha ki te mahi" - he mea tino nui ki te whakatau i te take pakiaka rite ki te aha e kore ia e hiahia ki te noho i te tēpu kura. Pea ia tika e kore e kite i tetahi tikanga, no te mea maha te whakarahi i te pāpāho te pātai o te pehea pakeke ko reira i teie nei ki te tiki i te mahi i roto i to ratou makehe, me pehea iti utu he kau ma'u o nekehanga whare wānanga. Well, te pono i roto i tenei wāhi o te tirohanga ki reira. Heoi, e kore e tenei tikanga e whiwhi i te mātauranga teitei kore he e tika ana.

Te whakamārama ki te taiohi e te kāreti whare wānanga ranei ka tauturu i te whakawhānui i ia tona ake Horizons me te ako i te tahi mea hou hoki koe - 'oku' aonga ma'u pē.

Ki te kore e hiahia te hongofulu ki te ako, ko reira taea e kore ko ia anaanatae. E mea pinepine e taea tetahi mau te pikitia ka he prodigy te tamaiti pokaia e noho ana i te tēpu, whakarongo ki te kaupapa ngā i roto i te kura tuarua. e mohio ana ia i te rauemi, na e kore ko ia hiahia, kia whakamahi i te kaiako i te huarahi takitahi ki ia, tokanga ki ngā ākonga katoa.

I roto i te āhuatanga i taua taea tatou tūtohu ki te waihanga i tētahi tamaiti pūtake tino arotau pupū pūkenga mo tona whanaketanga atu: ki te tonoa ia ki te whare mātauranga motuhake, ki te tiki i tona whai wāhitanga i roto i ngā pātaitai me ngā whakataetae.

Ko te pātai o te aha te iwi taitamariki e kore e hiahia ana ki te ako, ka taea e whai i te otinga tuwhena. e kore e tohunga tūtohu pēhanga nui i runga i te tamaiti, puta tëtahi ki rapu ia ki te rapu mōhiotanga, me te ki te whakawhiti i te reira i tetahi kura ki tetahi. Tuatahi, me te tuatahi ko te tangata, e kore te faaiteraa o koutou wawata ia.

I roto i te mutunga, te kura he wāhi pai-tautuhi i roto i te ora o te tangata. I roto i te kōwhiri ratou tikanga i mua nei kia arata'ihia te tamaiti i te mea ia te nuinga pai ki te mahi.